Cheated because insecure over wife's new boss. Bonus: Sister is a lesbian

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Me [M28] and my wife [F26] are repairing our relationship, but I cheated on her with her younger half sister [F24]. What do I do?

First off I know that I’m in the wrong for doing what I did, but as me and my wife repair our relationship idk if I should tell her about this.

Me and my wife have been together for about 7 years married for 3. For the last 5 months we’ve had a huge rough patch. It really started when she got a new higher paying job. For all of our relationships I was the bread winner and was taking care of most of our bills. I don’t make that much either. Our difference in wage was me making 70k and my wife making 40k. However she made a huge leap from 40 - 80k, then from 80 - 100k. These leaps happened within two years. While I stayed where I was. With this I feel like she respected me less. Also she hasn’t taken up much more responsibility. In the beginning I payed for rent and our car payment and insurance, and essentially everything else’s she just payed for things like internet and food. Since she’s gotten her huge increases she didn’t really pick up any more responsibility. To be fair to her she needs to pay off about 60k in debt, but still she hasn’t offered and idk how to ask.

Then from there she started working later and spending a lot of extra time with her boss after work. He’s a much better looking and a much more successful guy than I, so it makes me insecure for sure. After this we started fighting a lot over finances and her spending time with her boss. Since these fights started she started being really petty, not talking to me and we’ve stopped having sex for the last 6 months. We still sleep in the same bed? But she’s denied any advances.

About 2 months after we started having sex she let her younger sister move in. We’ll call her “Kyla” [F22]. Kyla just lost her job and had a major break up with her ex girlfriend. So she moved back and we welcomed her into our home. She made herself at home really quickly. Immediately, she was walking around the house in SHORT shorts and T-shirts. I mean like 1/4 of her ass hanging out of her shorts. Being starved for sex I noticed and kind of appreciated it. 2 things about Kyla….

1. She is a bombshell, she’s a really petite and curvy half white and black woman(they have different dads, so my wife is a blonde haired blue eyed white woman and Kyla is light skinned). She’s got incredible curly hair, and an absolutely amazing body, and a gorgeous face. Since she’s been fired she started focusing on being a fitness influencer and has gotten like 30k followers in a month.

2. She has an insanely high opinion of me. She thinks I saved her life 5 years ago and won’t stop talking about it. Basically 5 years ago while hiking she fell and somehow cut her arm really bad. I believe it was her radial artery that got cut. There’s was a ridiculous amount of blood and everyone panicked. I had a tourniquet in my bag and I had just watched a video on how to use it a day before, so I used it and we got her to safety and waited for the ambulance. The doctors say that it was good that I did this and she hasn’t forgotten. She takes any opportunity to tell anyone who will listen how I saved her life and carried her bloody body to the EMTs, she always over dramatizes it and makes me out to be some hero.

This kinda in forms the way she treats me. She’s been the sweetest and most caring woman I’ve been around. While my wife has been ignoring or dismissing me, Kyla has listened and cared. Talking with her always improves my mood, she made me a cake when I finally received a raise and made a huge deal out of it. Idk she’s made me feel important again.

The night we slept together, my wife was out with her boss again at some fancy restaurant. She didn’t tell she was doing anything and I had cooked us dinner. I made her favorite meal as an attempt to maybe bring back some of that fire. However after she was 1 hour late I looked at her location saw where she was at and texted her. She just said, “work meeting”. I was really upset, Kyla noticed and we talked and she ended up eating the dinner with me. Again she just acts so grateful. Hyping up my meal, saying she wished her ex could’ve treated her to meals like this and all this and that. We had shared two bottle of wine and opened a third and moved into the living room. She set on the couch next to me and heard me complain. About half way through this bottle I saw her nipples through her Tube top and stupidly said, “I’ve never been with a girl with pierced nipples.” I immediately apologized and she was just quiet and then asked if I wanted to see them. I was to stunned to speak, but she was basically staring into my soul. She said, “yeah?” I still had no response so she nodded her head and pulled her top down. Exposing everything, I looked, but still was just shocked and didn’t know what to do. She lived my hand and rubbed it across her breast. I did start doing it myself, she put her hands in my pants and started to give me oral. Finally I came to my senses and told her to stop. She quickly jumped up embarrassed and went to her room. I sat on the couch for about 5 minutes. Really regretting what I had done. Then I looked at my wife’s location to see she had left the restaurant and went to a bar. Idk I got upset I rationalized that she had to be cheating on me, and I went to Kyla’s room. She saw me and started apologizing, but I kissed her and we had sex. And… it was legitimately the best sex I’ve ever had. The level of passion was better than even when me and my wife were in our prime. We went for over an hour and then cuddled for a bit. After she went to sleep i showered, during this shower Kyla woke up and joined me, giving me oral again in the shower. After this we kissed and went to our own beds. Maybe an hour later my wife came home tipsy, and for the first time in months wanted to have sex. So we did, the whole time I thought of Kyla.

Since then and it’s been about 3 weeks me and my wife have been doing a lot better. Kyla hasn’t said anything and neither have I. I talked to Kyla and we both agreed it was dumb and we shouldn’t do it again and also to keep it a secret. My wife and I are getting along again, she apologized to me. Saying that during that last night at the bar with her boss he talked to her and made her realize how I had been feeling and she says she feels bad, and we are having sex more regularly. I can’t not think of Kyla though. About half the time I have sex with my wife I think of Kyla. I feel really bad that I did this, but I don’t want to ruin the progress we made.

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[u/Nihilistic_Noodle]

On the bright side, comments aren't buying it either.

[u/PassorFail13]

I give this a 🍆 🍆 🍆 out of 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆. for original content because at least you didn't't bang the step sister. That entire genre is oversaturated

[u/Upstairs_Author_8186 → u/PassorFail13]

But he did!!

[u/erosead]

Double extra bonus that the sister was 15 when he started dating his wife (when he was 21), apparently, and has had a weird hero worship of the guy since she was 17 (23), going by the age retcon in the text of the post (where he says she’s 22, not 24). That’s… cutting it close to creeper territory, I would say

[u/silicondali]

The embedded numbered list is a dead giveaway that OOP still lacks the basic skills to write his boring, basic fantasies one handed. The Chat GPT prompts were one handed, at best.

[u/MuldartheGreat]

This is why I’m single

Because someone made some weird wankbait post on an Internet forum?

Also the creepy description of the sister is just amazing one handed typing.

[u/tjcaustin → u/MuldartheGreat]

No see he was justifying why he had to sleep with her. That’s why he described how hot she was and how much of a lame-o his wife is, making more money than him.

[u/tjcaustin]

I was like “another one of these ‘Dear Penthouse’ posts” until I realized I cross posted this too lol

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