All my friends ghost me

[u/No_Emu_1500]

I'm not sure what I do that's so wrong, I've made a lot of new friends this year and they all are already starting to ghost me. I'm a college freshman and already one week in and my friends are hanging out without me behind my back and talking about me the main girl keeps saying about me being gay behind my back and asking if I'm gay and stuff.

[u/Ancient_Kangaroo_109]

Sounds like they aren't your people. Are there any groups or clubs you can join to meet more like-minded people?

[u/Ancient_Kangaroo_109 → u/Ancient_Kangaroo_109]

Also, it took me until my sophomore year to make friends. The "friends" I made during freshman year weren't solid. It took me a hot minute to find my people.

[u/thievingwillow → u/Ancient_Kangaroo_109]

Very true. This happened to most of my friends in college. People made friends quickly freshman year and without a lot of discrimination. By sophomore year they/we had a better idea of what we did want in friends besides “any warm body so I don’t have to go to dinner on my own.” Those were the friendships that lasted.