Has there ever been an instance where there was one person in particular that you just refused to work with? And I’m talking you don’t want to work with them out of fear for your own safety, not just because you didn’t like them.
Myself and another individual from my department do not get along. There have been some things that unfolded outside of work that proved to me that they are not a good person and we quickly were no longer friends. However, I try my best to not bring that into work. You don’t have to like someone, you just have to work with them.
I am able to avoid this person for the most part. But in the rare occurrence that we have worked together, they have quickly proven to me that they are not under the same belief of not bringing this outside conflict into work. I have tried being the bigger person and working willing with this person for 24 or 48hrs at a time, but they continue to act hateful and disgusting towards me.
Every decision or action I take is questioned and criticized, I get scoffed at for even speaking, and to be completely honest, I am not confident at this point that they would put their life on the line for me if I needed it. I am constantly treated like I know nothing despite having more time on the job than them. Any approach I’ve made at resolving this and speaking about it directly with this person has been met with complete immaturity (name calling and blame game). And even their company officer is letting this behavior slide and chalking it up to “can’t force you guys to like each other”.
I don’t want to be friends with this person. All I ask is that Im able to have a little faith and trust in the people I’m spending my 48hrs with. If this continues to become a safety concern, am I right to take this further up the chain and voice my concerns?