For instance, it doesn't usually come up at all in places like r/wholesomememes.
r/wholesomememes specifically states and rigorously enforces the rule of not having anything that's not "wholesome", so obviously bigotry, no matter its color is not going to be encountered there and if it is you'll only see it in the form of [deleted] comments or locked posts.
With that in mind, it's not fair to bring that subreddit as proof, similar to other subs (like for example lefty subs or subs specifically targeting women), there are mods who are pretty strict about this.
I used to be of the same opinion as you, but then again you see some folk who get too "happy" and "energetic" at the prospect of revengeful behavior, like a woman hits and she's hit back twice as hard, and then go ahead and dress this kind of behavior as "equality" or "justice".
The more I see it, the more I'm convinced that there are some people who are way into this kind of "thing", and if you look into these people's history and commenting patterns, most often than not you'll find very similar areas of interest.
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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '17
I don't think that's true. From what I've seen, the more prevalent opinion seems to be "start shit, get hit."
So, not a hard on for women getting hit, just no tolerance for people that think they get a free shot based on "X."