Hi all,
First post here in this sub, so hopefully the right place. Looking for a bit of advice on how to help my dad end a relationship with a contractor that’s gone sour, what if any options we should look at, and how to pick up the pieces and move on.
Original project:
- Had an estimate and required close to 70% up front
- I did not receive, nor do I recall any standard contract spelling out any details on what happens if things go south or arbitration or termination details, etc.
- Two month estimated completion date
Before I say anything more, let me say this: We are already aware of our stupidity in this situation and the fact that we should have understood and noticed what was happening far earlier. I won’t bore you with excuses -- we were very anxious to get someone for the project and this person came highly recommended, so our guards were down. My dad had the ultimate say in choosing the contractor, but I was there, too, which is why I’m including myself in the stupid part. What was supposed to be a 60-day project has turned into 18 months with many twists, turns, and delays – some valid and caused by outside sources, some I believe have been manufactured, and some deliberate with the contactor taking other work.
When there were valid delays, we really tried to help him through them with additional work or financial help, but he complained almost from the start about how he was always losing money or in the wrong business or how we were causing him to see money slip out of his hands, etc. A lot of what I felt was pretty unprofessional stuff to say to a client.
- I feel he used the delays to expand the scope of the project to include a lot of other work and lock us into him.
- It also feels like he led us astray with many things that shouldn’t have been done or jumped to before the original project was finished.
- Looking back, leaving things unfinished was a big pattern; the contractor liked to work on things that he could invoice for, rather than work on things he had already been paid for.
Last week, after becoming belligerent with me over some innocuous questioning, and then having a meltdown with one of the trades onsite, he basically took some of his stuff and walked off the job without any notice. Later that day, he sent a letter saying that he was going to take a break from all his work for my dad. The letter was basically a litany of misleading info or outright lies trying to rewrite history, cover his butt, and justify being able to just stop/pause work. I’m not even sure why he would send it, because we have kept comprehensive documentation that easily disputes everything he included in his letter. Moreover, it makes him look like the huge liar he is apparently.
Him walking off also came just a few days before he would have been able to call for one of his framing inspections – something we’ve been waiting forever for, and he knows this.
So now, this is what we are left with:
- Incomplete contracted and paid for work throughout the home
- Uncertain permit status with no contractor to complete inspections
- My dad who is distraught and just wants to get into his home.
- A few very shady (possibly fraudulent) things we found looking back more closely through the invoices
- A contractor who has paused all his work and seemingly thinks he’s got us over a barrel and can just come back when he needs money again
- Or, possibly, a contractor who wants us to fire him and thinks he can bully us into paying for incomplete work
- There is a LOT more to this including multiple other ways he has shown his true colors and could have complaints no doubt filed against him, but this is already way too long and convoluted. Apologies!
Whatever the state of this shit show, I do know when it comes down to the bottom line, my dad just wants him gone now. He wants him to come and pick up his tools and never set foot on the property again after all the stress this past week.
- When push comes to shove, he owes us more for the incomplete work and some work that never started, along with some financial assistance he agreed on paper to pay back, than we owe him.
- If we owe him anything at the end of this (and I’m not sure how that would be possible with the work not completed), it’s very minimal (less than 1.5k).
- I don’t believe we owe him a dime at this point, and if anything, we’re the ones who are going to probably have to cut our losses and lose a lot of money, because I’m pretty sure he doesn’t have any.
- Just for more context, we did check on his credentials and insurance etc., before we hired him.
- I also couldn’t find any complaints against him, but after what’s happened, I have a sick feeling this isn’t the first time he’s pulled something like this, probably just on a smaller scale.
It was like he was three steps ahead of us from day one and knew what he was doing – even going so far as to be careful and very vague with what he said in emails/texts, and sent out invoices that on the surface, seemed very detailed, but most of the time didn’t include enough detail in the title or the information throughout the invoice to identify which room of the house he was actually billing for.
Anyway, apologies for how long this is…I’ve tried to shorten it several times but not having much luck. Any advice or guidance would be appreciated – especially advice on how to kick him to the curb without leaving my dad vulnerable to any more of his B.S.
Thank you!
TU