r/Interstitialcystitis • u/Shortyroo3 • 9h ago
Don't give up; hope can come from unexpected places.
Long-time lurker here. I posted awhile back when my 17-year-old daughter was suspected to have IC, desperate for answer and suggestions. Many of you reminded me that IC is a diagnosis of elimination, which felt overwhelming. I read nearly every post in this group, took notes, and cried with and for many of you, thinking this might be something my daughter would have forever. š The kindness and encouragement here shown to one another, from those going through years (sometimes decades) of pain, is absolutely incredible.
We had several appointments with her doctor, and I asked about embedded infections (as many here suggested). I was dismissed and told it āwasnāt a thingā and that mycoplasma was too rare to check. I pushed anyway, paid a hefty sum out of pocket, and was crushed when the test came back negative, and back to square one. The only advice we were given was to āwait a year for a urologist.ā
Even though her doctor felt it was likely IC, I couldnāt accept that without further investigation, especially since no one seemed willing to look deeper. And more, because this group offered so many paths to explore.
Months later (which I humbly acknowledge is nothing compared to many) was the breakthrough... physiotherapy! We found a physio specializing in pelvic floor therapy. It turned out my daughter has a very tight pelvic floor on one side, which was mimicking bladder infections. Why, was this not suggested by her doctor? How many suffer misdiagnosed. Its simply Tragic.
Long story short: many doctors donāt always consider this, and itās easy to feel dismissed. But there are other explanations, and there is hope. If youāre still searching for answers, donāt give up advocating! You know your body (or your childās) better than anyone. š