r/JUSTNOMIL 8d ago

Give It To Me Straight Help me

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u/adkSafyre 8d ago

No. MIL and her posse are no longer permitted in your home. That is your home and your sanctuary. If she can't treat you with respect as DH's partner, then he can meet them in public, or at her house, but your homr is off limits DH needs to be clear that the door won't be answered and if they come and make a scene the police will be called to have her trespassed.

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u/AbilityPale1572 7d ago

Nope, even her house is off limits! Why? Because that’s where all the guilt tripping and shaming for living our lives started. She’s on it very hard though, to the point she’ll take any opportunity just to be alone with my DH. I do agree with meeting in public, I think she’s keeping him or us isolated so she can shame and manipulate us along with her monkeys.

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u/adkSafyre 7d ago

If her house is off limits, then I agree they can only meet in public. As long as she doesn't get access to your home. Public spaces mean you can get up and leave.