r/JUSTNOMIL • u/k_rowz • 1d ago
RANT (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻ NO Advice Wanted Just a short rant
“It’s been three weeks since I’ve seen you- the longest in your life you’ve gone without seeing grandma!” dramatic sniffles and crying as she hugs my two year old like she hasn’t seen her in 12 years.
Oh stfu you miserable, useless woman. This is not only untrue, but also my daughter doesn’t give two flying effs about when she’s last seen you. You are a speck of dust in her life. You’ve done nothing but try to separate me from my daughter since she was born. You have two daughters of your own, plus three stepdaughters. Is that not enough? Fuck right off.
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u/Ok_Mix6856 1d ago
Ooh I hate when they talk that way to the children! Mine will say "oh mommy finally let me see you" like no, actually, you haven't called in weeks and he hasn't asked about you. I'm not forcing a relationship! These bitches are crazy
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u/k_rowz 1d ago
I am full of rage for you. Although I have the opposite problem, she tries to come over every weekend. Ugh.
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u/Ok_Mix6856 1d ago
Mine goes back and forth! Sometimes she's at our house twice a week uninvited, sometimes she ghosts for weeks. We're on a ghosting period right now lol
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u/Kaynani32 1d ago
What a nice direct challenge to make the next time longer between visits. Let her FAFO.
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u/12threeunome 1d ago
My ex MIL hasn’t seen my daughter in almost three years. Tell her she can chase that record!
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u/CartographerCold5597 20h ago
Same here, she ruined our weekend plans because “I haven’t seen baby in over 6 weeks!” So we went out of our way to make her feel better. But she doesn’t ever call or text me for photos or updates or ask how we’re doing. (only texts my husband behind my back but he tells me everything she says and stands up to her)
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u/k_rowz 19h ago
I am so sorry. The texting/sharing stuff to your husband behind your back is especially hurtful.
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u/CartographerCold5597 14h ago
Definitely, although I’m not responsible for making plans anymore if she wants to text him. So that’s a blessing lol!
I’m sorry you’re dealing with such manipulating behavior from your MIL.
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u/anonbooper2022 7h ago
My husband had to leave the country due to a work emergency when I was 6 weeks post partum. Things at work were really bad was gone for 3 months. My MIL said she was going to cook food for me every day while he was away. She said it several times and I trusted her to be there for me. What did she do? She left on a trip to Europe for 2 months. I was all alone other than when my own mother stopped by to help for a few weeks but she traveled from out of state. When MIL finally came to visit “I missed MY BABY so much😭😭🥺🥺🥺 grandma is so sad she didn’t see you😭🥺” like she DGAF about you lmao.
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