r/JUSTNOMIL 1d ago

RANT (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ NO Advice Wanted Just a short rant

“It’s been three weeks since I’ve seen you- the longest in your life you’ve gone without seeing grandma!” dramatic sniffles and crying as she hugs my two year old like she hasn’t seen her in 12 years.

Oh stfu you miserable, useless woman. This is not only untrue, but also my daughter doesn’t give two flying effs about when she’s last seen you. You are a speck of dust in her life. You’ve done nothing but try to separate me from my daughter since she was born. You have two daughters of your own, plus three stepdaughters. Is that not enough? Fuck right off.

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u/CartographerCold5597 1d ago

Same here, she ruined our weekend plans because “I haven’t seen baby in over 6 weeks!” So we went out of our way to make her feel better. But she doesn’t ever call or text me for photos or updates or ask how we’re doing. (only texts my husband behind my back but he tells me everything she says and stands up to her)

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u/k_rowz 1d ago

I am so sorry. The texting/sharing stuff to your husband behind your back is especially hurtful.

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u/CartographerCold5597 1d ago

Definitely, although I’m not responsible for making plans anymore if she wants to text him. So that’s a blessing lol! 

I’m sorry you’re dealing with such manipulating behavior from your MIL.