r/MensLib • u/futuredebris • 16d ago
The cure for male loneliness is feminism. Seriously.
https://makemenemotionalagain.substack.com/p/the-cure-for-male-loneliness-is-feminismCurious your thoughts! I wrote about how the answer to male loneliness is caring, and how caring is really, really hard. Especially for those of us who’ve been socialized as men. We’ve been told that anything outside of going to work or optimizing ourselves by lifting weights, sitting in ice baths, and pounding creatine isn’t worth much. That caring for others isn’t a “productive” or “efficient” use of our time. That someone else will always end up doing it. That we’re not supposed to do it because women are naturally, biologically designed for it and we’re not (which is untrue). That if we do it, we’re less valuable, like a woman, less of a man. But showing up and caring is both good for other people and us. We have to do more of it.
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u/Your_Nipples 16d ago
TL;DR: what a good Christian could have said.
This is actually wild. Is this serious? In this economy? In this climate? And what is told to women? The exact opposite.
Psy-ops