r/Nepal • u/Chillbuddha88 • 1d ago

It hurts man. It really hurts

I feel stuck in my life. I made so many sacrifices for my family, leaving my own dreams behind, but in the end, they question me, where are you now? Why aren’t you making progress? If only I had been selfish enough to focus on myself. But being a man, it’s a different story. It hurts when they question you, and it hurts even more when they don’t understand.

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u/Dragonfruit-7738 1d ago

i understood the hard way that the only person you need to take full care of is the one you see in the mirror

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u/grnsky 1d ago

☝️

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u/Aggressive-Hotel-923 1d ago

Us bro us Just remember You're not alone in this 🫂

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u/t0xicgentleman 1d ago

This too shall pass brother, stay strong

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u/Ill-Piccolo-502 1d ago

Just wanted to know whats the sacrifice that you made for the family that stopped your growth.just asking though I am just a bachelor graduate .May be such time is yet to come

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u/Dear_Reality_ 1d ago

Fuck that happened with me too. 😭😭 It hurts!!

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u/ProbableBarnacle 1d ago

I realized it too late too, I regret not making the decisions that would benefit me and thought of everyone else

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u/PalpitationDefiant19 1d ago

give us some context bro.
what actually happened

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u/Tell_a-Tale 8h ago

This might feel selfish but I have stopped caring about everyone. I am gonna prioritize myself and I have learned this the hard way. I don't care if they feel like I am not progressing myself or I am not where they want to be. I am choosing myself in this life, I will die with my choices.

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u/Outside_Revenue_4576 1d ago

Once you get that the Nepali parents and relatives will start to nag you for marriage too.

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u/TransientAF 1d ago

This is just our lives brother...Be strong, Keep going

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u/genzi12 1d ago

Youll be right brother .. keep grinding .. you knoe the whole time scenario testai chha .. deshko but will overcome so .. b positive till ..

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u/simsim122 1d ago

Read metamorphosis by franz kafka

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u/Ok_Subject_4240 1d ago edited 1d ago

Everyone is going through something or the other. Hold your head high and keep going! ❤️

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u/barbad_bhayo 23h ago

Well you did not make progress so that’s a right question 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ and if you were not able to afford family time you should not have sacrificed career. You have Poor decision making skills

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u/sagarapher 22h ago

You are not alone man... We all been through this situation and still fighting for this....... Don't think you are alone 🫡

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u/napst 15h ago

We think we are making sacrifices for someone special but they don't even realise the sacrifice we made for them.

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u/Weekly_Chemical4705 25m ago

I realised it recently , when you don't have money even your own parents don't consider you anything ...so for a man the most important this should be money , paisa cha vane afanta chan respect cha love cha sappai cha paisa chaina vane kasaile ni gandena