r/Norway 10d ago

Working in Norway Etiquette? Common courtesy?

This may offend people and get down voted. It is what it is. Do Norwegians not learn common courtesy or street etiquette when they are kids? For real. So sick of this. Always stopping and standing in the middle of an aisle or sidewalk to talk, fix a bag, etc. Don't care about the people behind you. When they're walking down a sidewalk, they just walk in the middle, on the wrong side, walk 2 or 3 abreast, not caring about people walking towards you. Don't let other people off public transport before you push your way on. The last straw was tonight when I was at Meny, and a lady didn't even let me finish my order before she was pushing her way into my self checkout. I go to grab my receipt with my barcode to get out, she looks at me and goes "Ja". You guys don't give a shit about anyone but yourself, for real. This needs to be said

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u/Shadowrunner138 10d ago edited 10d ago

Your speech mannerisms sound American, and if you are an American, you're being a raging hypocrite because we're no better in public. I work in tourism in a famous national park in the U.S. and go through this every day. In the U.S. it's common to be told "If you don't like it here, leave". That may be good advice for your situation. Have you ever had the courage to vent to a Norwegian face to face on the street? Just curious.

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u/Ambitious_League4606 10d ago

Way more civilised in UK actually, we like to queue 

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u/Open_Put_7716 9d ago

UK queueing isn't what it was

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u/stettix 9d ago

I disagree. Young people have even started queueing in pubs, which was never a thing and definitely a step too far! https://www.reddit.com/r/AskUK/s/EBpt7i2mm4

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u/Open_Put_7716 8d ago

That's completely mental. But queuing in the wrong place doesn't compensate for not queuing in the right place.