r/SubredditDrama Caballero Blanco Nov 07 '17

CHADS WIN! And by chads we mean everyone that isn't Oxus. /r/incels has been banned. Discuss this happening here!

I'll fill this up with drama as it unfolds.

/r/drama thread

/r/subredditcancer thread, including an explicit entreaty for the former users to join the alt right for some reason?

One user advertised r/incelspurgatory in the thread you removed. Admins were already on point, because they've banned it just ~11 minutes ago. Sub lasted about 10 hours last I checked.

r/AgainstHateSubreddits thread

/r/MGTOW thread

/r/thebluepill thread

New sub: /r/IncelsWithoutHate

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17 edited Nov 08 '17

I tried talking to them a few times when I first got on reddit and saw that it was a thing. I was called a chad and they said I was probably good looking, since good looking people are the only people that have ever been laid, evidently.

It's like... fucking no. They don't realize the effort that girls (and guys) put into their appearance. It's just like you said.

I don't know what any of these guys looked like, but if they are really 2/10s, I fucking guarantee you I could pick out a haircut and some clothes along with some dating tips that would get them women that matched their own outward attractiveness. A 2/10 can become a 5/10 if they just take care of themselves and know what they're doing. And 5/10 ain't bad.

edit: I just wanna add, are they right about literal male-model types? Yeah. A real 10/10 guy could literally take a dump in front of a girl on a first date and she would help him clean it up. But there are very few guys that are overwhelmingly Zoolanderish attractive. They seem to think any guy that is slightly more attractive than themselves is some kind of Nero. I think it's Nero. They have a flawed concept of social norms, low social intelligence or something.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17

Honestly a lot of them are pretty damn ugly and it sucks because even if you take care of yourself it's tough.

One dude was 5'1, shit man that's tough no matter how much you care about your appearance

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17

Shit, I didn't even consider height.

Bad call on my part, that's gotta be tough no matter what, being a small guy and all.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17

The way she goes man. Some people are just ugly

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u/W3NTZ Nov 08 '17

Yea but they can make up for it through effort and bettering their personality. But they try that with they will get sex in mind not that they will be happy they bettered themselves. That's where I learned I'll never be able to get a girl to like me if I couldn't like me.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17 edited Nov 08 '17

Come on, man. We've been through the "love yourself first" spiel at the beginning of the thread. For some people it's never gonna work out and if you just keep repeating the same talking points at them, you'll be lucky if they merely stop listening.

You wonder why people that try to help get bullied out of incels? Obviously because that was a deeply hateful community with some serious fucking issues. But also because everyone going in there thinks themselves the first when really they're #987 repeating standardized talking point no. 5, and not even realizing it.

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '17

Ain't noooo personality making up for being 5'1