/r/incels has been banned. Discuss this happening here!

[u/TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK]

I'll fill this up with drama as it unfolds.

/r/drama thread

/r/subredditcancer thread, including an explicit entreaty for the former users to join the alt right for some reason?

One user advertised r/incelspurgatory in the thread you removed. Admins were already on point, because they've banned it just ~11 minutes ago. Sub lasted about 10 hours last I checked.

r/AgainstHateSubreddits thread

/r/MGTOW thread

/r/thebluepill thread

New sub: /r/IncelsWithoutHate

Meanwhile on Voat

Undelete thread

Circlebroke thread

[u/flashpanther]

tfw you try again and again to become what people want and you experience nothing but failure and rejection.

I hate myself

[u/itmakessenseincontex → u/flashpanther]

Don't become what others want. Become who you want to be. Dress how you think looks cool, not how you think you could dress to but into society. Be passionate about yourself and your hobbies, and because you enjoy them not because you're performing for others. You don't have to confirm to society to be attractive. You just need to become comfortable in your own skin, and happy with yourself. That's going to be your biggest asset in the dating game. You want someone to fall for you, with all your good bits and all your flaws, and you to fall for them for the same reason.

[u/flashpanther → u/itmakessenseincontex]

I already am the person I want to be. Nobody else wants that person. That's the problem.

If women were attracted to me as I am today then I wouldn't be alone.

[u/[deleted] → u/flashpanther]

A few years ago I was really into male self improvement. A lot of the advice in that field is BS, but the one thing that really stuck out to me was:

“Be the best version of yourself”

What does this mean? Well for starters it means advancing in your career or job. Looking for ways to get promoted or take a better paying job. Get fit. Find the fitness program you like, and do it. If you enjoy gaming, do it, but limit yourself per day. Listen to gaming podcasts when you workout. If you enjoy Netflix, check out some shows you always hear people talking about. Download tinder, go to the bar and get drunk selfies so it looks like you have friends. Walk in the park, jog, ride public transport.

You want to talk to girls? Here’s a better idea. Get comfortable with talking to people. Say a few extra words to the cashier. Get to know your bus driver. When you get coffee at that store, talk to the employee a bit of if they aren’t busy.

In my experience organic conversation starters work a lot better than canned pickup lines. I’ve talked about the bus schedule, weather, a terror lockdown at the airport I was at, the guy puking on our bus, etc.

The key is to find a common issue you are both facing and talk about it. When she moved from asking about the issue to asking about you, ask her for her number within 5 min.