job hunting sucks right now. here’s your reminder you’re not the problem

[u/jerryjhlee]

Job hunting right now feels like getting punched in the face by strangers every day and then being told to “just keep applying.” And the reason why is that

• ai tools make it way easier to apply, so recruiters are drowning in applications.
• because of that, they use ai filters to auto screen résumés. a lot of qualified people get tossed before a human ever sees them.
• since hiring managers don’t fully trust ai, they lean on personal referrals and networks even more.
• and yes, ai is also starting to replace some jobs outright.

So here's a reminder:

1. it’s not your fault. this market is historically bad. even top candidates are waiting months. don’t turn rejection into “i’m worthless.” it’s not a reflection of you as a person.
2. you’re allowed to grieve. losing a job, or not landing one, is still loss. routines, confidence, identity it all gets shaken. it’s normal to feel sad, angry, or numb.
3. find little wins. a call back, a good mock interview, finishing an app without spiraling, that’s progress. celebrate those. momentum is built on small steps, not giant leaps.
4. lean on people. friends, family, even strangers here. you don’t need to carry this alone. half the reason this sub exists is so you can vent without feeling like a burden.
5. protect your self worth. your value is not tied to who decides to email you back. your worth existed before this job search, and it’ll exist after.