r/YouShouldKnow Jul 19 '20

Other YSK That many people with a disability consider their aides (wheelchair, etc.) an extension of themselves. You should ask before touching or moving them.

Read this article and was surprised to hear how many people struggle with this. Even if you are trying to help, you should ask first.

www.bbc.com/news/disability-49584591

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u/GayHotAndDisabled Jul 20 '20

People so this to me with my cane. My usual response is "... Nothing?" Bc I was born with a genetic condition. But it's infuriating that strangers feel entitled to my medical history and to my cane

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u/TheRiddleOfClouds Jul 20 '20

"The same thing that is going to happen to you if you don't stop touching my fucking arm, bitch!!"