r/armenian • u/No_Plankton947 • 19d ago

Armenian dating chase

I have heard of a traditional “chase” in Armenian dating, when a man will “follow” a woman. How long does this tend to last if the girl isn’t interested or has a boyfriend? How does this work what if there was talking involved but from an American who tried to friend zone someone, and it gave mixed messages?

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u/No_Plankton947 19d ago

Ok, so this common “following” isn’t associated with high levels of abduction….right?

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u/No_Plankton947 19d ago

As in it is a way to pursue a woman- and being persistent is typical?

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u/Hayyer 19d ago

No what I’m referring to is something mutually agreed between bride and groom.

If it goes past that, I mentioned it’s just stalking…

A guy needs to know when she is serious when she says to leave her alone…unfortunately in some cases the guy did not realize.

It all comes down to success rates…1 in 10 guys gets the girl that seemed unavailable, and that gave some idiots the idea that the percentages aren’t that bad. This way some guys got the wrong idea of how the “chase” works. Usually guys should stop after two or three rejections…if they don’t, they aren’t part of the norm and you need to watch out.

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u/No_Plankton947 19d ago

I should reiterate he’s not following me but making contact via “bumping into me”, driving by my work, and my house.