r/armenian • u/No_Plankton947 • 19d ago

Armenian dating chase

I have heard of a traditional “chase” in Armenian dating, when a man will “follow” a woman. How long does this tend to last if the girl isn’t interested or has a boyfriend? How does this work what if there was talking involved but from an American who tried to friend zone someone, and it gave mixed messages?

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u/Hayyer 19d ago

No what I’m referring to is something mutually agreed between bride and groom.

If it goes past that, I mentioned it’s just stalking…

A guy needs to know when she is serious when she says to leave her alone…unfortunately in some cases the guy did not realize.

It all comes down to success rates…1 in 10 guys gets the girl that seemed unavailable, and that gave some idiots the idea that the percentages aren’t that bad. This way some guys got the wrong idea of how the “chase” works. Usually guys should stop after two or three rejections…if they don’t, they aren’t part of the norm and you need to watch out.

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u/No_Plankton947 19d ago

When you say they aren’t apart of the norm, do you mean they are violent?

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u/Hayyer 19d ago

Ok rereading your original post, if that’s you, and someone is overly pursuing…(assuming you’re in the US) you need to make a very public rejection as loud as you can and threaten if not produce police intervention…some people just don’t get it until it’s loud and clear

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u/No_Plankton947 19d ago

So you think I should call the cops? (Are you in Armenia?)