r/Assistance 25d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT RULE UPDATE: Effective immediately, your post/comment history may NOT be hidden in any capacity

246 Upvotes

Hi all,

Reddit has rolled out some new "features" (sarcasm) which allow users to hide portions or all of their post and comment history. For transparency reasons, this is unacceptable for a subreddit like ours, and we are frankly amazed that Reddit believes this is a good idea. But I digress.

Moderators have full access to a user's post and comment history for 28 days the moment they either post on r/Assistance or send us a modmail. We can see everything, including anything that may be hidden. That allows our moderator bots to run their checks for consistent activity, karma farming, and so on.

However, this is not extended to you guys, the helpers, who need to be able to properly vet the people you are helping. We've had numerous reports of accounts being "scrubbed" when they are in fact not scrubbed -- they are just hidden. If they had scrubbed everything else, you would be able to see their post on r/Assistance that you just reported, after all!

Effective immediately, your profile may not be hidden. Posts and comments must be fully visible to ALL, and any attempts to conceal activity such as on illegal subreddits or extensive drug activity will lead to a permanent ban.

Frustratingly, there is no way to quickly determine if an account has hidden content or not, especially when you're a mod because you can see everything anyway -- so feel free to report any posts or users that have locked their profiles so we can reach out.


r/Assistance 27d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT r/Assistance is looking for new mods!

27 Upvotes

Hello, r/Assistance community!

We are once again looking to add some new moderators to our team. We learned a lot from our last mod recruiting campaign, and hopefully the process will be improved this time around.

The application is here: http://r-assistance.com/mod

Some information we want to provide upfront which caused the declining of some applications last time:

  • Discord is a requirement to be a mod. It is how we communicate in real time, especially for time sensitive issues where we need all hands on deck.
  • If you are a mod, you cannot use the subreddit for your benefit. That means you are not allowed to post Requests or enter Offers.
  • We are looking for at least one mod who is in EU/UK/Australia/Asia who can help support the subreddit during the night when our North American mods are sleeping/unavailable. Please mention this in your application if possible (just put it in any of the free-text answer boxes, we are working on adding a specific spot in the application).

A quick overview of typical moderator tasks:

  • Reviewing the queue to reflair and remove misflaired content (ie. a Thank You post with a GoFundMe link)
  • Checking Amazon wishlists to make sure they are within limits and have no disallowed items before approving
  • Handling modmail inquiries with specific questions
  • Marking fulfilled/partially fulfilled requests as Fulfilled to track the help received
  • Manually issuing bans not processed automatically by the system
  • Investigating and actioning reports in the queue and in modmail (ie. fraud, scams, scrubbing).

Our subreddit utilizes both the Universal Scammer List and a custom admin system hosted off-Reddit with its own infrastructure. You will be taught how to use these functions after a few months of getting comfortable with the rest of the role, so don't stress about it.

Mods need to be compassionate and kind. We uphold everyone to our rules while understanding and empathizing with their situation. People in modmail will often be upset, frustrated, and confused. Please make sure that you are up for the emotional toll of dealing with upset people all day before applying -- your mental health is important, too!

We hope to see your application in our inbox soon!

Feel free to drop any questions about the role in the comments.


r/Assistance 11h ago

THANK YOU I can't believe the support I got here. Thank you all so much!

38 Upvotes

I just want to say THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH. I posted earlier in the day and ended up including an Amazon list at someones recommendation. My request was fulfilled in a few hours.

I'm in shock. I can't believe multiple strangers were willing to help me with items for my two 2 year olds. I'm so touched and have been in shock all day. Thank everyone SO MUCH. I'm truly at a loss. And as soon as were back on our feet, I'll be back at this subreddit helping others.


r/Assistance 1h ago

REQUEST Need help getting my dog phenobarbital

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My dog has idiopathic epilepsy, and she is currently on phenobarbital. I was almost evicted and had to use all of my money to go toward my rent, and I don’t have the money to refill her prescription. Her vet office will not work with me, I cannot use good RX because I already used the free trial. And it is $65. If she goes without this, then she will start having seizures. I am desperate and I don’t know what to do to get this medication for her. Any suggestions or help would be greatly appreciated.


r/Assistance 11h ago

REQUEST Daughter and I need help immediately

10 Upvotes

My long term partner came home today and told me she found someone new and took all her things and left. She told me she is buying herself out of the lease and we will have 2 months to figure something out but we were left with 7 days to make $1600 or find somewhere to live.

I am now completely alone in Houston with just my daughter and myself. I have no money and no job and am either going to try to get assistance to stay in my current apartment or need somewhere we can live to get on my feet.

I have been looking for a job with no success as of yet but am still looking every day. If we can not figure something out I don't know what else to do.

If anyone can offer any help such as a low cost rental, a job, or money for rent I would be externally grateful.

Accepting donations though Gofundme https://gofund.me/140ef253


r/Assistance 14m ago

VOTES Need your help voting for my picture!

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Hi guys,

I am currently participating in a contest of photographers in the Netherlands. Since I am a starting photographer it would mean a lot too me to win this contest. I would like to kindly ask you guys to vote for my picture. There is no sign up of any other personal information needed to vote, you can just simply click "vote" ("stem") and that's all! You can vote here: Fotowedstrijd natuur - Foto van de Maand | Natuurmonumenten if you scroll down a little bit you will find my picture. It's the picture with the ship with the lights, and the sunset in the background with around 102 likes.

It will only take 5 seconds of your time.

Thank you very much in advance.

Kind Regards.


r/Assistance 6h ago

REQUEST Recent heart attack and desperately needing help for co pays

3 Upvotes

I had my first heart attack a week and a half ago.. it runs in my dad’s family, my dad had his first heart attack at 40, uncle had congestive heart failure— I’m almost 36, thought I was too young for this to happen, but, alas. It’s a really scary time. I’ve had to pay an insane amount of copays including simple primary visits for lab work (my enzyme levels were insanely high but they want to see more as the days go), additional ekg’s and X-rays, and now discussing doing an MRI and more forms of heart-monitoring this week. Every time I’ve gone in so far (three visits plus I haven’t even included the ER bill), I’ve had to pay $150 each time, making it hard for me to have all of the rent for the beginning of September. I did seek out rental assistance but it was already too late, and my parents just honestly don’t have much, so it’s all coming straight from me. With the math I’ve done I’m looking to be ~250 short on rent and the lights. even my landlord (private owner who’s usually extremely nice that I have a good relationship with) is still saying he has to give me a 10 day notice if not paid on the first. it’s all ridiculous because I told him the circumstances and while he was empathetic, he still “couldn’t work anything out”.

Thanks for reading, the ~250 amount is what I’m lookin’ at here.


r/Assistance 2h ago

REQUEST I need help with my phone bill

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I've been behind for a while, but I always manage to scrape by. This month I came up $85 short to pay my phone bill. I hope someone can help


r/Assistance 12h ago

ADVICE Advice please.

6 Upvotes

I graduated 2023 with a master's in biotech with no internships in Algeria. I'm jobless and aimless since then.

Diagnosed ADHD, CPTSD and an abusive home life. Controling parents.

Tried translation but didn't manage to land clients in freelance.

I want advice on how to find a remote job or how to end up abroad (no scholarships available for me).

Entirely at wits ends tbh.


r/Assistance 6h ago

ADVICE PicsArt Pro Subscription

1 Upvotes

How to Refund my PicsArt subscription my account was in Free Trial and I forgot to Unsubscribe my Money was the last resource for Allowance :( I tried asking for refund through Google but it kept denying me I have 22 hours left before the 48 hour mark :(


r/Assistance 16h ago

REQUEST Just ran out of cat food and I get paid at the end of the week

7 Upvotes

HI everyone...

We just ran out of cat food. I knew we were out of dry food but I didn't realize that last night was the last can. I do not get paid until next week. I don't care if I have food but my fur babies have to eat! I would like to get them both dry and wet food. But the dry is what is out daily for them so that would be a priority.

I was wondering if anyone could send funds or some cat food my way either for delivery today or tomorrow.

I have Instacart so I would be able to get the food delivered today, but i do have a few bits of sliced ham I can give them tonight.

****** EDIT: Someone suggested adding my Furbabies's wishlist so here it is.******

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38PTNSGTDIM0U?ref_=wl_share

Thank you!!!!


r/Assistance 6h ago

REQUEST 3rd year med student seeking help for used medical textbooks and commute.(second attempt )

0 Upvotes

Good morning to everyone. Trying again on a second attempt.

I am entering my third year in medical school in the eu.(6 year program) and really need help to buy used med textbooks sold by older students at a reduced rate at the start of the school year. I specifically want to buy the textbook on pharmacology, semiology and pathology as this are all courses we are going to be learning and requires intense study and book cramming. I tried searching online for free versions and I couldn't see it. Also pleading for help for commute costs and transport. 45$ is what I am asking for as I have tried to save up for the summer for other subjects as well( we do virology, medical genetics , immunology) I have PayPal and will appreciate any help I can get.


r/Assistance 16h ago

REQUEST Need help with groceries

4 Upvotes

I need help buying groceries and pee pads this week. I just paid off my rent I was behind and I thought I had enough left over for food for me and my bunnies until I get paid Saturday but I miscalculated. I’m asking for $120 or anything close to that. I’ll pay it forward once it’s payday and I can breathe again. Amazon wish list: amazon wish list


r/Assistance 14h ago

REQUEST AAC device for non verbal child

1 Upvotes

Hi there. Im attempting to raise money on my gofundme for an AAC device for my nonverbal child. If anyone is able to assist! I'd forever appreciate it.

https://gofundme.com/f/aac-device-for-kayden/fb/o?utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&utm_campaign=natman_sharesheet_dash&utm_content=amp14_t2&ts=1756073685395&attribution_id=sl:4bdc67ba-b33e-43a0-8593-8ea32ed4dbc8


r/Assistance 11h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help getting electrolytes

1 Upvotes

Since getting pregnant I've had frequent dizzy spells and heart palpitations, and drinking sports drinks with electrolytes is the only thing that helps (this was directed by my doctor). After paying bills this last paycheck there wasn't enough money left to buy more. $12 would get me enough to last until the next paycheck since my local grocery store has a 24-pack of propel water on sale. I have cash app, venmo and PayPal. Thank you in advance

I made a wishlist since I was asked.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED No here to turn. Need help, have 2 year old twins.

11 Upvotes

*Edited to add Amazon wishlist after someone recommended it in the comments.

I'm out of options....

The last 2 years have been the hardest of my entire life. My wife gave birth to our fraternal twins, and I have never been so happy or loved someone so much. Then everything fell apart.

I lost my job due to a corporate merger, I had been with the company for 6 years and had moved up into management, but we were the first to be let go. That started a spiral, and I have lost almost everything. We had a car repossessed, we had to declare bankruptcy, we've relied on food pantries to get by, and now we're behind enough on our rent that were being taken to court.

I dont know what to do or where to turn. We dont have family that can help, in any way. They're not local, so they can't even watch the kids or help with them while we work, which had made finding a job so much harder than it already would be. Im scared. I dont even know what im asking, I'm just grasping at straws at this point.

I didn't even know this subreddit was a thing until a few hours ago. Im not even sure what im asking for. I just am out of options. If somehow someone could do even the tiniest thing to help it would be appreciated. I dont expect handouts, though, either. So many people are hurting now. My wishlist only includes things for my children, I dont want or need anything for myself.

Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/33JG5W0A02Q8M?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 4h ago

REQUEST Credit card payment assistance

0 Upvotes

Hello!

I was able to get on the hardship program with my credit card debt earlier this year to lower the interest rate and essentially pay half of what the minimum payment had previously been. It’s now about $120CAD a month. Unfortunately, what savings I had left after my contract job in the spring (feb- beginning of may) has been depleted. I live with my parents and they’re also on a hardship program and in a consumer proposal. They have been able to help with my smaller bills but it’s a paycheque to paycheque situation these days. I’m working on obtaining another job and selling items, but it’s a slow process. If I could have some buffer with $240CAD to cover two months, it would be enormously helpful.

I use PayPal. Thank you for reading! 🙏🏼


r/Assistance 12h ago

REQUEST Help with gas

0 Upvotes

Hello, my tank has about enough to get me to and from work for one day and I don't get paid until Friday. If anyone could help me cover a tank of gas I would be forever grateful. Otherwise I am unsure of how I will get to work. Thanks in advance.


r/Assistance 1d ago

THANK YOU Update: Thank you all for the birthday wishes ❤️

22 Upvotes

I just want to thank you all for the birthday wishes for my sister. They really meant a lot, and honestly some of them gave me a good but happy cry. I'm so touched to know there are so many caring people out there. Please never change.

I passed the messages on to my little sister, and now she calls you all the “uncles and aunts of the internet.” She told me to tell you that she really loves all the messages, and that she loves you all too.

We even read some of them together with our grandma. She wasn’t too happy that I vented on Reddit 🥲, but she’s grateful for all the kindness people showed.

Thank you again, it really helped make her feel special. ❤️


r/Assistance 1d ago

CLOSED OFFER I can offer groceries or food help

32 Upvotes

I can offer grocery or food help through wal mart , Amazon or Kroger. HEB if you are in Texas. About $50. Can not send funds only food up to amount of $50


r/Assistance 17h ago

ADVICE Advice please 🙏🏼

0 Upvotes

Hello, I live in Arkansas and receive SS Disability and am a 3x transplant recipient. I wanted to ask if there are any organizations that help disabled people buy homes. I live in someone's house but he is wanting me to move out and I have no idea how to go about this. I have pets so none of the public housing or rentals in my area want people with pets making ownership is the only other option I see. Any ideas or help is greatly appreciated.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED In a tight spot and currently have no food

17 Upvotes

I was recently fired after 5 years at my job for a simple infraction. (July 25th) Was given no warning or write up and was fired on the spot. I signed up for unemployment but it’s taking forever. I had $400 saved up before I got fire and that money has drained quickly over the month. (Bills , food and transportation to interviews) Luckily my roommates are giving me grace on rent until the checks come. But I’m currently out of money and can no longer actively get to interviews so i stopped and I also ran out of food.

Just looking for something that can get me a weeks worth of groceries from dollar general. $30-50 but honestly I’ll take whatever and just walk to quick check and get a sub and eat half today half tomorrow. I’ve been surviving this past week on 1 pouch of oatmeal a day praying unemployment transfers the money.

Thank you if you read this.


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST Need $15 for a pack of socks and some meat/eggs

1 Upvotes

Hello guys. I hope you’re all well. I’m currently working as a house cleaner (freelance, no contract), and this months has been very difficult to get by, since most of the clients have gone on vacation.

I luckily have found some other odd jobs in the meantime, but the money is not enough since I have a debt with my landlord (previous late payments), so all the money I do is to keep paying him and stay under a roof. I am blessed to say I will completely pay him off on late september.

I’m left with no money from the past week, and would need to buy some socks for work and then the rest for some meat and eggs and have this new week covered.

I would be grateful if I could receive $15 dollars through paypal. I have no other payment methods and can’t do an amazon wishlist since I’m in europe. Appreciate any help or words. Thanks in advance :)


r/Assistance 19h ago

REQUEST Need Urgent Help With Rent While Waiting for a Disability Determination

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Ginger (F30). I've been struggling with homelessness basically my entire adult life because I'm neurodivergent and came from an abusive family who I haven't heard from in almost a decade. My health has been declining for years but has gotten worse since Covid. I now experience excruciating back pain which makes me unable to stay on my feet for long periods of time, passing out that happens after any strenuous activity, and excruciating daily migraines that cause extreme nausea and confusion. My doctors are doing all they can, but I can only really afford the low cost clinic that is $10-20 per appointment and doesn't do all the testing on site and I can't always afford to go to get the other tests because the state of Alabama is denying me both medicare and the affordable care act due to my income. (I'm appealing this.) I've applied for disability and have contacted many charities in my area but have heard nothing back. I am now on food stamps. I have exhausted the few friends I have by couch surfing and accepting money but I know everyone I know is struggling financially so I can't go to them for help. As I said, I have no family to ask help from. I'm trying to make $500 by the 1st of the month and hopefully by then I'll be able to work something out with my job, which is barely giving me hours at the moment. I'm really doing everything I can to support myself but it's becoming hard.

https://gofund.me/ba8db023


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED need help paying rent

2 Upvotes

hello I'm a 24yrs old working student.

we are siblings of 8, and I'm 2nd oldest. i am currently away from home cause i left there because of my mom, I'm currently supporting myself through my part time job, i get paid 3,000 philippine pesos ($53) a month, minus the rent for my boarding house. i get sidelines and stuff to pay for my other school fees.

recently my mom called me telling me she's pregnant again, and she's gonna give up my 2youngest siblings for adoption, i said no but she said if you want then get them.

i didn't really want to give them up, so i convinced and made my landlady understand they have no where to go, since my boarding house payment is only for 1 person, she said she will allow it but she will raise the rent by 3,000 Philippine pesos, which is literally my salary for the whole month, i tried to negotiate but since the rent also includes water, wifi and electricity and i wouldn't be able to find that deal anywhere i couldn't do anything to convince her to lessen it a little.

i already go to the police to ask maybe what other things i can do but all they can offer is DSWD which is a safe place for kids but they will be up for adoption.

all i need is help pay with our first month here together and maybe i could figure it out later, i just need help, because if i pay my whole salary now I'm gonna have hard time going to work and buy us food.

i only have paypal, thank you. and i hope everyone is having a nice day.


r/Assistance 22h ago

REQUEST Help

0 Upvotes

Okay so I know my issue isn't as important as others but I really need help so that my cats continue to live with me, yesterday they got into mom's room and scratched 2 chairs so bad and nothing can fix it as they ripped the fake leather, I have enough to cover one chair but I'd need 35 euro to cover the other chair and shipping so I can replace them before mom's husband finds ou (he hates the cats and is looking for reasons to throw them out ) I m really desperate cuz I live in a village and they won't have many chances to survive the winter out the house cuz people here don't really care about cats. I can't seem to post pics to prove their crime....*( they really probably didn't know it was my fault I didn't check if the door to my room is locked) sorry for the inconvenience with my post.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Getting through summer holidays

0 Upvotes

Greetings!

I'm a writer from Czechia, currently trying to find a publisher for my work. I earn some income as a tutor on a small private language school. That, however, means that I don't have income during the summer holidays, save for some extra lessons with acquaintances or ocassional small gigs (like translating stuff etc.).
I have to pay an equivalent of $100 every month for health insurance (in my country, employers usually pay the insurance of their employees, but the school only allows a type of contract where I have to pay for it out of pocket). I usually manage to budget it out pretty well, but this year, I've had some unexpected expenses and I'd very much welcome any help to get me out of the broke territory.
It doesn't bring me much joy to request here, especially when there are probably people who need assistance more than I do, but any help won't be forgotten and I'm determined to pay it forward to other people in need if I ever publish and get on stable footing.

I have a PayPal. Thank you for your consideration!