r/cancer • u/Mary-Jan • Nov 28 '23
Death My husband died yesterday
After 1 year and 9 months tortious battle with cancer (SCC of unknown primary.) My beloved husband died at home with me. We battled this horrible experience alone. Friends and family just disappeared from our lives through this time. No one showed up to see if I needed help before he died and NO ONE SHOWED UP upon hearing of his death.
This is really what starting over looks like I guess.
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u/Spirited_Hour_2685 Nov 28 '23
I wish I was nearby, I’m a doula and stage 3b (liver). I would have loved to come and sit with you, hold your hand, listened to you, cook a meal, give you a hug. I will light a white candle for you and say kind words to you and over your husband. You have my condolences. Sending love and light warm hugs and positive thoughts ❤️❤️❤️ May you find peace❤️