Rejected because of my cancer

[u/ladybug_06]

So I thought I would post this story on here because I figured you all from this sub would understand. I’ve heard stories from people where guys have left or turned women down because of their breast cancer but I finally experienced that. He didn’t reject me because I had cancer instead he rejected me because he couldn’t deal with the fact that I have no boobs because I chose to go with an aesthetic flat closure. I was told by him “I’m just a guy..” and “I have a list of things I look for in someone and this is part of it…” it just blows my mind to come across people who are not empathetic towards us and who do not realize that I did this to protect myself and my body. And just because I did not get reconstruction does not make me any less of a woman. This man had the audacity to lead me on tell me all of these things but the moment I tell him of my cancer he decided to “keep his options open.” He tells me he prefers a b/c cup on a girl. Like the audacity of this man. I have never met someone so self centered before in my life. I’m just sharing this because I know you all can relate to this in this sub and truly know the pain and heartbreak we have gone through. But it does not make us less than!

[u/cronediddlyumptious]

I'm sorry this happened to you but I'm also glad you didn't put any more of your positive energy into an unempathetic asshat.

[u/ladybug_06 → u/cronediddlyumptious]

Haha nope! He wanted to be friends and he was upset over the fact that I told him no. And he was like “wait so you’re telling me we are never going to talk again.” To which I said nope because even a friend would be empathetic towards me and what I’ve been through. 🤷‍♀️

[u/cronediddlyumptious → u/ladybug_06]

Good grief how completely out of touch with reality.