agreed, but it's much easier to hold a conversation when you aren't the one leading it. If someone is attracted to you they will be more likely to hold it.
most shy people, even with social anxiety, are going to have at least enough confidence for that.
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u/Djasdalabala Aug 29 '23
It kind of depends what one means by "confidence".
Someone entirely deprived of it will tend to also be insecure, socially awkward and anxious. Guarantee you that those can make anyone unattractive.