Most of these stuff isn't needed to get laid. Else, you'd not see solid 4s getting married all the time. I always say that caring for your appearance is good, but focus is improving your personality as a whole, while staying true to yourself, because nobody is here to please others for no moral reason in the detriment of your own values. That said, not mindlessly following impulses and emotions and actually figuring out what they mean is the way, because nobody's here to be a jackass out of control, either.
I think most women can see through the act men put on when they're trying to impress them and it's so cringe. It's even worse when the dude follows some kind of dating coach, it makes anyone puke in their mouths. And they get clients also by creating insecurities that shouldn't exist so you pay them and their business partners money for stuff to fulfill a demand they created themselves. So a lot of it is bs.
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u/Flowy_Aerie_77 May 04 '25
Most of these stuff isn't needed to get laid. Else, you'd not see solid 4s getting married all the time. I always say that caring for your appearance is good, but focus is improving your personality as a whole, while staying true to yourself, because nobody is here to please others for no moral reason in the detriment of your own values. That said, not mindlessly following impulses and emotions and actually figuring out what they mean is the way, because nobody's here to be a jackass out of control, either.
I think most women can see through the act men put on when they're trying to impress them and it's so cringe. It's even worse when the dude follows some kind of dating coach, it makes anyone puke in their mouths. And they get clients also by creating insecurities that shouldn't exist so you pay them and their business partners money for stuff to fulfill a demand they created themselves. So a lot of it is bs.