Doesn't sound like she's doing anything wrong. If OP wants to date her he has to ask her out, plain and simple. If she says no, they make the choice to stay friends or not. The friend zone is a place you put yourself
That said, EVERYONE deserves better than that. I tell girls the same when they are in a fuck buddy relationship and want something more. If he's not into a serious relationship and she wants one, she deserves better. If a guy is " Friend zoned" and the girl isn't into him, he deserves better.
It doesn't make the guy going through his hoe phase or the uninterested female friend bad. They know what they're about, but the other party who wants more deserves better. They deserve to move on and find something better for them.
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u/TalithePally pogchamp researcher Aug 05 '25
Doesn't sound like she's doing anything wrong. If OP wants to date her he has to ask her out, plain and simple. If she says no, they make the choice to stay friends or not. The friend zone is a place you put yourself