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u/RadiantFernBabe 5d ago
The dirty little secret of face to face cuddling, nobody actually does it for hours. It’s a cute few mins thing, then you either shift to spooning or just hold hands with some space. Otherwise, one of you is stuck with a dead arm and a mouthful of hot breath
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u/TheWatchers666 5d ago
Oh great...now the cat's outta the bag! hahaha
Hot breath or nose breathing onto your chest...horrible 🤭🤭
Cuddle...I'm sleepy...Night night and it's bum to bum! (which is kinda cute too)
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u/Aromatic-serve-4015 4d ago
nah i can stay like this the whole night.. its better than spoons by mile
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u/norwegiandoggo 5d ago
I don't ever cuddle my girlfriend face to face. Side to side or spooning is more comfortable
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u/jonny5tud 5d ago
I have not found a cuddling position where one person’s arm doesn’t eventually go dead. 🤣 Spooning, face to face, having the girl lying on my chest. Somebody’s arm always ends up paying the price. If anyone figures out the secret that doesn’t involve cutting off an arm, please let the world know! 🤣🤣
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u/AsleepScholar2200 5d ago
Truthfully my partner and I sleep in our own positions. Once he's in bed, he watches his own tv programme and I typically do crafts or I watch my own thing too for awhile. When we do cuddle, it's me on his chest but we don't cuddle alot in bed really. We only ever cuddle face to face when we're having a catchup about our days and not actually about to sleep.. or when we want to get freaky and kissing is involved lmao. Far more of a huggy couple than a cuddle-couple.
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4d ago
try lying on his chest 😎
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4d ago
Oh sure, my boyfriend loves it. But you can’t stay in this position for too long either but it just feels so good , goshh feels like heaven!! I suggest you hug him even lay on his lap while watching a movie, you feel so intimate, like two bodies one soul, wo i started missing my bf while writing all this lol !
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u/Krause0321 4d ago
We love it. It’s honestly how we sleep most nights. Much easier to get comfy and we don’t end up with dead arms. She just buries herself into me. Worst thing that happens is I get a bit too hot and roll over, becoming the little spoon lol
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u/SparkDeCoeur 4d ago
If you are unsure about what is ok just ask! I know asking is scary but just be like "hey, first relationship and you are your own person. Would you be ok with laying my head on your lap? "
Just ask if you are unsure and if he isn't ok with you asking questions thats a whole different issue that needs to be talked about.
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u/NicGyver 4d ago
As a guy, absolutely love it! Getting to wrap an arm around her while she lays part beside/part on me is absolutely amazing. Even better if she kinda puts one leg over one of mine. Also leaves a hand of her free to sort of tease along my other side/hair/hold my other hand. Super adorable.
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u/perry147 4d ago
I have a pillow between us at chest level. The underarm goes behind her head and pill (up near the headboard). The other top arm is resting on the pillow, resting on my hip, resting on her hip, or reaching for boob and get swatted away (unless I am lucky).
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u/Fit_Put3832 4d ago
Spread his buttcheeks open and shove your strap on inside him. That's how I cuddle!
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u/Lemomoni 4d ago edited 4d ago
I usually lie with my stomach facing the bed, one hand hugging the other person, other hand just free on the other side
Edit: this is for when we're trying to sleep
Edit 2: Also for when trying to sleep: I'll grab my partner's hand with both hands, turn my back at them, and sleep lol
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u/LuckyAcez 4d ago
Talk to your boyfriend about this! Asking strangers on the internet for advice is only going to take you so far but unless your beau is in this thread as well you’re not including the most important person. You should be able to have a constructive conversation with your partner about this to get their thoughts.
Maybe they’ll want you to lay a certain way so that you’re comfortable as well.
…and if you can’t have these kinds of talks with your partner, you should ask yourself if you want to be in a relationship with someone like that.
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u/TheDigitalGoose 4d ago
So the way I do it is I have my arm under the pillow that their head is on. I don't usually fall asleep like that but I have a couple times. I usually just fall asleep not touching. The pillow thing is the best way to cuddle facing each other for a long period of time, though
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u/SparkDeCoeur 4d ago
The best I have done with it is my head is in his chest so we aren't face to face and my hand is under me/my belly between us and usually ends up on his inner thigh, between his thighs really close to his junk. He doesn't mind my hand there, and this can be just a completely cute cuddle moment and not progress at all. I find that there is less pressure on my arm this way, and I move it easier. The only thing I am careful about is the position of that shoulder with all my body weight on it.
But yeah like a nother comment earlier. Direct face to face is not supposed to last for long. Spooning is the long term cuddle position and even for some that gets uncomfortable too.
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u/OutrageousHistory224 5d ago
Honestly, face-to-face cuddling is great in theory, but the arm situation sucks. You can try sliding it under the pillow you’re both using, or just throw it over his shoulder and let it rest on his back. If it ends up under either of your bodies, it’s game over in about ten minutes.
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u/Pinky_Glitter 4d ago
When I have a bf I love him laying on his back and me laying my head on his chest, hearing his heartbeat, him stroking my hair and us cuddling like this ❤️ I love falling asleep like this 🥰
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