r/digitalnomad • u/dc1ab • 19h ago
Question Anyone else feel like they've outgrown the ‘digital nomad scene’ and wanna try something new?
I've been nomading properly for about 5 years and then slow-mading (the only way to do it long term really) for another 10! I’ve done the co-living circuits in the Americas and Europe as a guest and a host, did the big-city hustle in Asia, and I'm writing this from Madeira, nursing a post-hike beer before I head back to Thailand next month.
I love this life, but lately, I’ve been feeling a bit disconnected from it. I used to think it was just me getting older while the scene was getting younger. But here in Madeira, something clicked. I met a crew of people aged 20 to 60, all drawn here by hikes, nature, surf and rumours of a solid community. And the rumours were true, thanks to Madeira Friends! I didn’t have to wade through the repetitive nomad where you from, how long you here chat - we somehow cut straight to projects, ambitions, and favourite hikes/sci-fi. I love it here, but after 4 months I’m ready to bounce.
Two things dawned on me, nomadism went mainstream and with such a variety of options it’s easy to plug into a shoe that doesn’t quite fit anymore. I’ve visited places I loved a decade ago, to find them wildly saturated - probably still cool if it’s your first rodeo, but I’m a little past that.
Second, and this came up in almost every conversation, this lifestyle isn't built for lasting bonds because … nomads, right! We leave by design. I don’t think it’s necessarily true because you do bond with people if you’re fairly sociable and I do tend to bump into folks in other parts of the world but in general people do drop off the circuit to settle down and so loneliness is a thing. I did notice however, that people who did things like Remote Year stuff or longer stints in ‘specialist co-living’ often travelled as a pack way beyond their trip and seemed to have built stronger bonds in general. Chatting with people here and in other groups confirmed it further. The price tag might be wild for someone on an EU salary (or a bootstrapped founder like me), but the curation model works!
I’m tired of sifting through meetups to find my people. I want to travel, but I also want to build enduring friendships. I want to be around grown-ups who are actively building things - an app, a film, a freelance career, their knowledge, something! I want a crew to hike or surf with in the morning, bounce ideas off of during the day and share a family-style dinner together at night… a travelling community curated by shared values, not by a hefty price tag!
So, I'm trying an experiment.
I’ve found a perfect, relatively undiscovered spot on the Andaman Coast of Thailand. It feels like Chiang Mai did 15 years ago, but it’s on the beach, with zero crowds or pollution. This October, I'm bringing a small group of friends and friends-of-friends together, and I want to open it to the wider community here.
Think of this as a longer term meetup for independent people who want to land in a new place with a solid crew from day one without paying through the nose for the privilege.
- What: A low-cost, no-fluff community for independent people who want to get some shit done and have a great time doing it.
- Where: A beginner-friendly longboard spot on the Andaman coast (Phang Nga, Thailand). 1.5h from Phuket airport. Think pristine national parks, zero crowds, and world-class food.
- When: October & November 2025. We’re calling it the "secret season"—the best surf, lush green landscapes, and no tourists.
- Vibe: Productive, social, and independent. Think collaborative work sessions, spontaneous surf trips, communal meal times and opt-in organised fun.
- Cost: Two options.
- $250 / month (Community Only): Sort your own housing. You get access to the group, curated events, group dinners, local support, and group discounts.
- $650-$850 / month (All-In): Includes the community fee plus your own private work-ready, air-conditioned jungle bungalow a 5-minute scooter ride from the beach.
The crew so far includes a YC alum, a filmmaker, an art director, developers, designers, a tattoo artist, a game designer, a marketer and a student.
If this rings some bells (or alarms), I'd love to hear your thoughts. Drop a comment or shoot me a DM.