r/emergencymedicine Sep 27 '23

Advice How to cope with peds deaths

I worked my first peds arrest yesterday. He was under a year old. I can hear his family’s screams echoing in my head and see the defeat in my team when we called it. I know it’s part of the job we do, but it sucks and I know they don’t get easier. Does anyone have any advice or coping skills to offer? I could use it.

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u/Dr_Spaceman_DO ED Attending Sep 27 '23

The first peds death I saw was my own 8 month old son. Having now been on both sides of such horrible losses, I don’t think you’re supposed to be ok after that

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u/Ok_Jellyfish6145 Sep 27 '23

God bless you and your son