r/emergencymedicine Sep 27 '23

Advice How to cope with peds deaths

I worked my first peds arrest yesterday. He was under a year old. I can hear his family’s screams echoing in my head and see the defeat in my team when we called it. I know it’s part of the job we do, but it sucks and I know they don’t get easier. Does anyone have any advice or coping skills to offer? I could use it.

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u/mickeymom1960 Sep 27 '23

I always cry. Really, what else is there? Peds deaths are tragic no matter what.