r/exredpill • u/Aggravating-Rain-30 • Aug 06 '25

Passport bros and racial fetishism

Why do some of these types think they can to Latin America, Southeast Asia or even Eastern Europe and think women would be interested in them??? It doesn’t make any sense as women find these guys gross in any country.

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u/Affectionate_Use9936 Aug 06 '25

Idk but I feel like speaking from personal experience it’s objectively much easier getting matches on dating apps. Like to the point where you can actually treat dating like a platform where you’re looking for a compatible partner instead of the lottery.

E.g. I had less than 1 swipe a month in California or New York. Moment I went to East Asia I got 100+ over a weekend. I also noticed it’s so much easier to talk with internationals in general (Europe, Asia, Africa). Like they’d actually be friendly and emotionally in touch. Idk why, but it’s much more pleasant to be around internationals in general, not just dating. Maybe Americans are too performative or suspicious about life or something.

(Speaking as an Asian guy though. I think the white guys I know who have asian fetish say that it’s because they find them younger/more attractive and that Asian girls approach them all the time).

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u/wildgift Aug 10 '25

Not to get too rice-pill, but everyone says the odds are better in Asia, which makes total sense.

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u/Affectionate_Use9936 Aug 10 '25

Why tho

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u/wildgift 27d ago

Money. An escape from poverty.

Also, POC also do passport, with the intention to get married and bring a wife over. So they have somewhat local aesthetics - being brown mainly - and also having money, and can get them a green card.

Some POC, especially Black and Asian guys, have their reasons.