r/exredpill • u/PutsWomenOnPedestal • Aug 09 '25

Showcasing men’s personality

If most women are primarily drawn to good personality (with looks being important but secondary) then why aren’t there any OLD companies that provide a platform for men to showcase their personality? Maybe a combination of video and text for men to put their emotional intelligence on display.

With proper design it should be virtually impossible for men to fake it with generative AI. With links provided for interested women to contact. Seems like an untapped niche. An emotionally intelligent version of OLD. Success would apply pressure on men to develop their emotional intelligence which is a win-win

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u/xvszero Aug 09 '25

I mean that's what the text portion of a dating profile is, no? Picture for looks, text for personality?

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u/HLMaiBalsychofKorse Aug 09 '25

Right? That's like saying that Tinder should just eliminate bios and you have to go off looks alone.

Plus, there is no way to "guarantee they can't use an LLM to cheat" - by the time any solution is in place, people are already figuring out how to get past it.

That being said, some guys lie online about who they are, what they want, and how they act. Therefore, it would be no different than any other dating app, right?

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u/PutsWomenOnPedestal Aug 09 '25

I read here that most men don’t bother filling that. Something that explicitly makes personality showcasing as the primary mechanism was what I’m suggesting . Not an afterthought

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u/thekeytovictory Aug 09 '25

I recently learned from a single girlfriend that there's a new speed dating trend where people make slide decks to pitch their single friends to other singles and the primary focus is on personality. It sounded pretty cool:

https://www.pitch-a-friend.com/

https://www.npr.org/2025/04/27/nx-s1-5365968/looking-to-find-a-date-a-new-program-lets-your-friends-make-the-pitch-for-you

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u/PutsWomenOnPedestal Aug 10 '25

Interesting. Sounds like a great premise for a romcom

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u/SufficientDot4099 18d ago

Pics are also for personality