r/exredpill • u/PutsWomenOnPedestal • 29d ago

Showcasing men’s personality

If most women are primarily drawn to good personality (with looks being important but secondary) then why aren’t there any OLD companies that provide a platform for men to showcase their personality? Maybe a combination of video and text for men to put their emotional intelligence on display.

With proper design it should be virtually impossible for men to fake it with generative AI. With links provided for interested women to contact. Seems like an untapped niche. An emotionally intelligent version of OLD. Success would apply pressure on men to develop their emotional intelligence which is a win-win

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u/fluttering_vowel 29d ago

Love this! I don’t like how short bios and answers have to be on dating profiles. That the character limit is so small. I love the idea of an emotionally intelligent version.

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u/PutsWomenOnPedestal 29d ago

I’m surprised that VR technology hasn’t been exploited for OLD. A way to assess someone’s personality and body language without risk for the woman. There is more than enough bandwidth to implement this today

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u/fluttering_vowel 28d ago

I’m sorry, I’m not for VR technology personally. but that is an interesting thought of a use for it.

I really think the best way is for a connection to naturally happen in person. And I know it’s really hard in our modern isolated society to find opportunities for connections to naturally happen. But dating sites just feel so unnatural in multiple ways.

Or even connections that happen naturally online but not through dating apps. I’ve been in so many amazing relationships, and amazing friendships, that began through sharing our thoughts online through facebook, videos and long posts. Very authentic connections have come about that way. It’s nice because there’s no pressure since it’s not a dating site, and there’s more room to get to know each other more slowly and more authentically through general social media rather than specifically a dating site.

I’ve heard of many acquaintences who have found their long term partner through making a very specific post on Facebook describing in detail what they are looking for in a partner…and meeting their long term partner through that! In all of these posts, what they were looking for was never superficial. They never listed things like height or income. They were very specific about values, long term goals/visions, personality qualities

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u/PutsWomenOnPedestal 28d ago

If that organic connection development can be offered as a service, that company could be very successful

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u/fluttering_vowel 28d ago

but that’s the thing! I think when it’s offered as a service, it is no longer organic