Hey everyone,
I’ve got a bit of a problem at home and I’m hoping someone here might have a smart solution for it. My partner is the deepest sleeper I’ve ever met. Light, music, alarms, Apple Watch vibrations… nothing works. She’ll just keep sleeping.
The issue is: every morning it somehow becomes my job to wake both of us up. The thing is, I don’t need to be up as early as she does. She often wants to start work early, which means I end up waking up earlier than necessary, trying to wake her, and then staying tired because she keeps sleeping anyway. I’m a super sensitive sleeper, so missing out on rest really gets to me and causes a lot of frustration.
Even on days when we have to get up at the same time, it’s still on me to wake her. And she usually gets annoyed at me in her half-asleep state, which then annoys me, and we end up starting the day with grumpy vibes and fights. None of this is “real” anger—it’s just sleepy frustration—but it does weigh on us.
Now, I’m switching our smart home setup over to Home Assistant and wondering: are there any smart devices that could actually wake her up without waking me? The tricky part is, even small stuff like her phone vibrating on her side of the bed can wake me up. So honestly, I’d also take anything that makes sure she actually gets up by herself—so it doesn’t have to be my responsibility anymore.
I was thinking about a vibrating pad under her mattress, but I’d love to hear if anyone has other creative ideas or gadgets that could work.