My dad (65) was recently diagnosed with stage 4 squamous cell lung cancer. It has spread to his spine, hip, liver, and lymph nodes in the chest. In just the past month he’s lost about 20 pounds, and eating has become such a struggle. His appetite is almost gone, and when he does try to eat he often gets hiccups and says it feels like the food is getting stuck. Imaging hasn’t shown any blockage in the esophagus, but it still makes eating uncomfortable. He’s also become very hoarse, which makes talking hard for him.
Last week he started his first cycle of Carboplatin, Taxol, and Keytruda. So far, his only side effect has been fatigue, which honestly feels like a blessing compared to what we feared. Still, I’m very worried about the weight loss and the fact that he just isn’t eating.
I’m here hoping for both hope and perspective. Has anyone else (or a loved one) gone through this same treatment at stage 4 and seen success? Did appetite or weight improve once treatment settled in? Has anyone else experienced hiccups or that sensation of food sticking?
This all came out of nowhere. He had no symptoms until he hurt his back and an MRI revealed the cancer. It’s been a whirlwind ever since, and I’m still trying to wrap my head around everything.
This is my daddy, and I just want to give him the best chance and quality of life possible. ❤️ If you’ve walked this road, I’d be so grateful for any tips — especially for helping with weight gain, nutrition, or just managing day-to-day. Hearing real stories from others who have been here would mean the world to us.