r/mildlyinfuriating • u/juoig7799 • 12h ago
I can't make a small penis joke on TikTok but people can be racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc and get away scot free.
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u/Saint_Riccardo 11h ago
I once told a fitness creator he had "a heart bigger than (your) boobs" this was flagged as inappropriate and the appeal didn't restore it either. But I've literally been told to jump in front of a moving train, which wasn't a violation.
Given up even trying anymore, just block and move on
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u/Miss-Vania 11h ago
I commented ‘your arms are bigger than my whole head!’ On this guy was an absolute jacked unit.
The comment got taken down for harassment and bullying??? What??
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u/vladi_l 11h ago
It's rarely reviewed by humans, and the bots are morons
Portal predicted it, we either get sentient sadistic machines like GLadOS, or artificial stupidity like Wheatley, the daft bastard ball, the perfectly designed moron
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u/Vincent394 9h ago
And we got the latter for now.
And the thing is THAT GAME CAME OUT 18 YEARS AGO
(14 years ago if we're talking about Portal 2)
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u/vladi_l 9h ago
All of sci-fi, since its inception has been warning us about man-made artificial intelligence/life/stupidity, with a distinct focus on "how about we DON'T play god, as we're kinda shit at raising our own, let alone a brand new species, because BAD SHIT WILL HAPPEN"
Best case scenario, AI is stupid enough to be benign, but otherwise useless and harmless unless enabled... But pretty much every other outcome is dangerous or inhumane, and it's all from the science fiction handbook:
-It turns on its creators, kills them
-it turns on its creators, enslaves them
-It turns on the entire human race because it doesn't fit in, kills them
-It turns on the entire human race because it doesn't fit in, enslaves them
-It turns into a literal slave race, while being sentient enough to suffer. (morally abhorrent, and can lead to all of the above scenarios)
-Humanity gets desensitized to the concept of life and genuine connection, substituting it with yesmen AI that simulate surface level relationships, and the world grows into degeneracy and laziness, slowly dying while machines take their place, and then they also die
-it turns humanity into livestock to power them, as well as a simulation to make us happy little sheep...
And at every step of the way, the tech bros, who are supposedly fans of the stuff, but seem to have the reading comprehension of a moldy peanut, decided it's a good idea to invest into and develop ai.
We're at a stage where it's just a hindrance to my profession, and a contributor in enshittification of consumer products, but it's only gonna get worse.
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u/Goldenrah 11h ago
Automatic flagging systems make it a lot easier to punish. The words boobs is probably already inserted in there, telling someone to jump in front of a train doesn't have any automatically flagged words, it's dependant on the wording.
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u/Spinolli 10h ago
Or you know, delete the fucking app that allows this shit to happen. There is a point where you become complicit in the things that happen on a site, by still endorsing it, by being there despite you already knowing what's going to happen. Complicit ignorance.
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u/SousVideDiaper 10h ago
I mean, small dick jokes are shitty too. It's not on the same level of bigotry as those, but it's still a form of bodyshaming.
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u/Tool_Using_Animal 9h ago
Yeah but OP has her head way too far up her own ass to realize this and thinks she's the vitcim.
What's her argument again? "But this one guy committed murder and got away scot free, so I should be allowed to steal"
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u/xXF33TL1CK3RXx 11h ago
I called someone a poopyhead and got a ban warning for bullying.
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u/Mammoth-Ad-107 11h ago
not to self don't use that word to call out fellow redditors
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u/gucknbuck 11h ago
I mean, yeah you shouldn't be making small penis jokes, it can be very hurtful, even if the person you're joking about isn't the one hurt by the comment.
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u/SousVideDiaper 10h ago
It's wild to me that people will rant about the negativity of bodyshaming, yet somehow not realize that small dick jokes count as bodyshaming.
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u/Snowskol 8h ago
This is literally "Im angry because I was an asshole, but thats okay because they are too"???????
This registers as normal in your head? Youre not the victim here, youre the asshole.
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u/Live_Angle4621 10h ago
Why you should be able to insult people based on appearance just because there are comments allowed that should be removed?
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u/Neat_Leadership_5133 RED 11h ago
So are you infuriated that you can't make small penis jokes, or that people can be racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. and get away with it?
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u/SheepherderSilver655 9h ago
So let me get this straight, you're anti-bigotry until it comes to body shaming? Then it's ok?
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u/Exponential-777 11h ago
Make a joke about huge vaginas next time. Let us know how it goes!
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u/haikusbot 11h ago
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u/gravityabuser 12h ago
Just don't make a joke about a tiny penis then? Seems easy.
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u/Goldenrah 11h ago
I bet it was the word penis and some kind of automated system. It's easy to moderate when you make it that easy for them.
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u/GrailQuestPops 11h ago
Get rid of TikTok. It has zero value in your life. I got rid of it after over a year of 8+ hours a day casually doomscrolling/letting live streams run in the background etc., and I’m so much better off. It’s just a data farm that feeds you dopamine to extract your interest and target you with guerrilla ads.
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u/BobPlaysWithFire 11h ago
i once politely corrected a guy who called a CISGENDER woman a guy... then MY comment got deleted for being discriminatory smh
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u/cateanddogew 10h ago edited 10h ago
Idk why people are okay with body shaming men but then I'm downvoted when I joke about tall "women"
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u/Femboys_make_me_bust 11h ago
It's tiktok man, I can't post a meme pic but other people can just post straight up porn.
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u/Andr0idUser 11h ago
Welcome to the internet is it your first time? People threaten others on live stream and dont get banned, there has and never will be an equal application of The Rules.
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u/Zestyclose-Tour-6350 9h ago
Whenever the Terf game came out and i voiced that i no longer liked the franchise, my comments and content would be deleted. But the people who were calling me slurs for Jewish folks still had comments up. Tiktok has just always been that pathetic with their moderation it seems
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u/mustafa_i_am 9h ago
Some words like "penis" or "boobs" are automatically flagged as inappropriate, while videos saying gay is bad really needs human intervention to decide if it's inappropriate and that won't happen unless a lot of people report the video.
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u/EquivalentMath4439 9h ago
System is fucked! I made a comment about the Minnesota shooting and said something about wearing Kevlar covered Bibles if they think thoughts and prayers were the answer. And I got banned. Lol
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u/FormerStuff 8h ago
Well yeah you didn’t self-censor. You gotta put it like Pen15 or pe niece or some other goofy childish shit.
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u/CompletelyBedWasted 5h ago
That's what you get when platforms are run by a BUNCH of small peenies!
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u/KunninPlanz 11h ago
I once got reported by somebody on Steam on a Warhammer game forum, for pointing out that in Warhammer lore Slaanesh Daemonettes are depicted as running around naked. Meanwhile, talking about other stuff from the lore, such ultraviolence, extreme injury detail, inciting hatred, etc, is absolutely fine.
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u/Extension-General927 12h ago
Yeah that’s life online. I quoted Shrek and got a violation. 🤣
“Donkey you’re heading straight for a smacked bottom”
If you’ve ever seen the movie from the 90’s Demolition man, we’re on track for it to be like that. We’re gonna be fined for swearing next.
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u/cosmic_v7 11h ago
THIS. THIS POST IS MY CHANCE TO GO ON A RANT ABOUT HOW ANNOYING TIKTOK IS.
In the comment sections, I will see people joking about rpe, I will see blatant racism, I will see homophobia, hate towards Islam, hate towards Christianity, I’ll see prn, but as soon as I retaliate and respond to the OP calling them out, my comment gets removed for “not following their community guidelines”?!
I am not the best person there is, but I have the ability to empathise. If I see a culture or a person being marginalised, whether it be an “Indian hate ⬇️” or “get better” comment on a post about someone ranting about getting SA’d, I will stand up for them. I will respond to their comment, and state that what they said is not right. Regardless of its nature, if it’s meant to be a joke, it isn’t right and I will call it out, but TikTok silences me by removing my response, but not the original comment.
Since 2022 TikTok has put me in this tough spot. Though I am unaware if anybody else is faced with such an issue, but I do know that TikTok removes my comments for no reason, not good ones at least, and it’s driving me NUTS.
In 2022, I wrote a comment on a video humouring animal abuse, and I had to speak up. I wrote a comment, though I cannot remember if it was draconically aggressive, I do know it was lengthy and written with anger. I didn’t write any death threats, I didn’t threaten anybody, but I’m pretty sure I wrote some insults. Of course, the comment got deleted.
Very recently, I came across a post discussing the nostalgia asscioated with old screenshots, where everyone in the comment section were posting old screenshots along with the context behind it or the manemory associated with it, so naturally I decided to join in as well as I have a fair share of old screenshots. It was nothing negative or offensive, just a screenshot of Charmander on a cool Pokédex app. Yet, it got deleted because it violates community guidlelines?!
A screenshot of charmander gets taken down for violating TikTok’s terms and agreements, but not racism, homophobia, and worst of all prn or rue34?! It’s madness.
TikTok, PLEASE up your game and do better.
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u/thatirishguyyyyy ➤────◉───── 04:20 11h ago edited 10h ago
Tiktok isnt your friend.
TikTok along with Google and meta were censoring Democrats and election fraud immediately after Trump took office. Hell, you can't even Google this as Google censoring this information still. You can find some reports about it on Reddit and some tech forums though.
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u/BobPlaysWithFire 11h ago
got my comment deleted bc i called myself, someone with autism, autistic... cause apparently having a diagnosis is harassment and bullying 😍
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u/Hot-Crazy5285 11h ago
I give you one better!
I was on tiktok live, and someone was streaming a game where the character was a naked anime girl. I've reported the live, and tiktok found nothing wrong with it.
So i took ss of the live and posted them myself, with a ss of the tiktok report. Account banned immediately :))) i still have the ss somewhere, I'd need to look for them, but yeah.... tiktok suck ass and im glad I dont have an account anymore.
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u/PomegranateSure1628 11h ago
It could just be because tiktok doesn’t allow the saying of genitals but then again porn has been seen on TikTok and it’s run by wankers
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u/DeliciousNeck6279 11h ago
I got banned from public freakouts for commenting on a fight with the words " Hi-yah" . They said i was being racist.
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u/mpreg_connosieur 11h ago
Saw a video where a dude was literally playing with his dick, you saw everything. The video was "not against guidelines", but the small dick joke i commented was lmao. Yeah sure let him expose his tiny dick
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u/SpirituxlJ 12h ago
I quite literally commented what was said in a video AND I used quotations but the same thing happened to me.
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u/StopRuiningItForAll 11h ago
It's because TikTok does not like targetted harassment towards a specific person. Making generalizations is okay.
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u/Tayto-Connoisseur 9h ago
Chinese social media app.
Chinese males have the smallest penis in all of the world.
Any further questions?
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u/Krocsyldiphithic 9h ago
I once suggested that we shouldn't jail people for thought crimes or protesting, then got permabanned for hate speech. Nope, no context missing.
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u/Swifty404 9h ago
Same whit me and Instagram.
Everyone say N word or Nazi stuff.
I say something about LGBTQ and a OF person and my whole account gets limited and can't do shit just scrolling works.
Thanks who ever control or made the rules
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u/Smooth-Doctor1688 9h ago edited 6h ago
All phobics are welcome on Twitter. Fucked platform.
Meant to say TikTok.. but also applies to Twitter
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u/blanchov 7h ago
As long as you dont say his
There have been so many racist posts that I report, they always say they don't break TOS. I will ask Grok if the racist posts are against their rules, grok always says they are, but they never get removed.
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u/Boardwalk75 9h ago
I’ve reported so many gore videos on insta. I mean blatant videos of graphically violent fist fights, people being shot etc. I’ve reported racist comments, not comments that were out of touch jokes or a bit off the wall, no I mean outright disgusting. None of it gets taken down. Someone being shot and killed doesn’t go against the violence terms of service 🙃
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u/hoteppeter 9h ago
Maybe the mods are finally tired of seeing the same joke a million times a day
Try being creative next time
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u/CardiologistSad6041 8h ago
Well we all know Trump "doesn't" have a small penis now, because someone at Tiktok has probably tested its sweet taste🤣😂🤣
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u/aloneinthiscrowd 8h ago
Did you make a Diaper Donnie Trumpedo small mushroom dick joke? Maybe that was the problem? Make America Gina Again?
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u/Deissued 8h ago
Folks still using TikTok is mildly infuriating. Delete the app you’d be doing yourself a favour
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u/icyclenyc 8h ago
TikTok is a joke. They’re so soft with the littlest thing you can’t even tell people you have low IQ because it gets removed lol
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u/Smokeme2121 8h ago
You said a flagged word on an app made for a younger audience. What did you think would happen ?
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u/DanteQuill 8h ago
Well for starters, that's not a joke. That's an insult. Beyond that, I don't know why you'd wanna be referred to in the same breathe as the rest of those people. Maybe rise above the hate if you can.
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u/CorradoJrSoprano1 8h ago
The worst is when you get a ban for "threatening violence" for a comment that isn't remotely violent or aggressive.
Reddit sure do a great job reading their reports.
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u/Indigoisms 8h ago
TikTok is cringe af to use anyway. Maybe take it as a sign to use less social media
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u/Hjordt98 8h ago
You are the sacrificial lamb so the company can say it makes sure they take action against accounts violating their terms of service... while ignoring high profile accounts that brings in money for them...
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u/verycuteecat 8h ago
Ive seen videos of children and animals get killed on tiktok with “funny” audios playing in the background and when i reported them multiple times they were not taken down. Tiktok guidelines are a joke
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u/Randigno9021 7h ago
Tiktok community guidelines are highkey fkn ragebait. I made a comment once mocking the ppl that say shit like "mustache man was right", and it was fine for a while, then one day, it's just removed out of nowhere and I got slapped with a ban warning
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u/Silver_Extreme9448 7h ago
I keep reporting comments dropping racial slurs "no violations found"
I call a fictional character a dumbass ONCE "Comment remove for violating our terms of service" as if i was harassing someone??
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u/Gabagool_Ova_Heah 7h ago
The key is to make broad, general jabs. Not direct, personal. That's the only thing they care about.
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u/Joppewiik 7h ago
Something you learn as you get older is that the world doesn't make sense. The best way for survival is to learn the rules and adapt to the game.
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u/waywardwixy 7h ago
Tiktok is so shit its literally not worth having. I wasted years reporting abuse from kids being hurt or ripped off by groomers or severe animal abuse. Videos stay up but if you remark against a bad video you get banned. It's depressing and outrageous.
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u/SidusBrist 7h ago
I got banned by TikTok for a video about Tifa Lockhart...
I also got permanently banned from Instagram, and all the connected accounts (including Facebook) because I did... nothing!
I had a second account which I used only to watch stories and watch or like videos/reels. The only single comment is a comment that says "You are so cute 🥰", not a single direct, not any other comment, and I was permanently banned for "violence and abuse of minors" and I was like... what...?
I can't even say to a person that is cute and I get a permanent ban, I was absolutely not flirting or doing anything like that... 😅 (but there's also the possibility someone have entered in my account and published something weird or did who knows what that lead to the ban...)
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u/TurpitudeSnuggery 7h ago
I dont use TikTok. Does it all depend if a person reports the comment or not?
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u/Sad-You-5017 7h ago
The Chinese government owns TiKTok. Tiktok is used as social engineering to make Americans more stupid than they already are.
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u/MajorMitch69 7h ago
They let people post child pornography, but don't let me say that Nazi's are bad
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u/Far_Atmosphere_9513 6h ago
If you make a comment about an AI pic here on reddit,the brainless mods will punish you for "calling someone a name" even if said name is just a description of the AI art and it is posted in a sub where you are asked to critique.
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u/luthervandrossham 6h ago
Penis will get ya flagged no matter the context. You gotta be more creative
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u/hippiegoth97 6h ago
yep. I got in trouble for calling someone a 'walnut' once. meanwhile I get slurs thrown at me quite frequently and no amount of reporting takes them down 🙃
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u/Kamikazepoptart 6h ago
I got a strike for saying bbl but when I reported someone saying the hard ER they found no violation 🥴
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u/Island_Monkey86 6h ago
Apparently those in charge have some issues that they are rather sensitive about.
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u/russian_hacker_1917 5h ago
not once but TWICE did i get a comment removed for calling someone a silly goose. Two times!!!!
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u/ramadansrevenger 5h ago
You are complaining about a Chinese propaganda instrument not behaving properly? Ok.
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u/ItsyouNOme 5h ago
And if you had a flatchest and was called flatchested you would scream. Bodyshaming isn't cool eityer gender. You aren't in the right either.
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u/Naive-Corner6352 5h ago
Why is this happening? Like what is the reason behind this? Who is making these decisions that heinous, misogynistic, homophobic, comments don't get removed?
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u/SheGotGrip 5h ago
Say peen... it probably got checked automatically by being spelled properly...
I say peen cheese licker all the time without issue... it's my signature...
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u/AlasKansastan 5h ago
Reddit is just as bad. Woke neck beard mods get mad from mom’s basement and are happy to “silence” whoever disagrees with them.
It used to be a cool forum site, now it’s full of angry, “woke” idiots.
I wish chat rooms were still lawless. It’s anonymous after all and this thin skinned world sucks
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u/TheVega318 5h ago
All those other things are controllable but not peener size. I cant help that I have an egregiously massive hawg and I would hate for someone to make fun of me for it. I stand with Tik Tok on this one.
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u/Revegelance 5h ago
TikTok's guidelines make no sense. I've had comments removed for calling people assholes, but those very same assholes get to keep their racist and violent comments. I've reported the most vile shit imaginable, only to be told those comments did not violate any rules.
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u/im_just_thinking 5h ago
There is no justice in the real world, why would it be in the virtual one?
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u/Wickedfrick 5h ago
I can't make a simple joke on reddit or I get banned, but way worse has been posted on here
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u/I_Want_BetterGacha 5h ago
I'm still a little pissed that they removed my favorite insult: "You can have high intelligence with low wisdom" (knowing a lot of facts, but being unable to understand what they actually mean). I got it reinstated though.
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u/FoxcraftYTX 4h ago
That's nothing bro my comment once got deleted for the word dumb and it wasn't even towars someone 💔
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u/Icarusextract 4h ago
Not to be annoying, but small penis jokes suck anyways. It’s body shaming, and some people do actually have smaller penises. Especially since people often equate having a smaller dick to being a POS. TikTok moderation sucks, but so does what you said
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u/cryptomoon1000x 3h ago
yup I even got a strike here on reddit for making a sarcastic joke. Can’t make that stuff up
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u/bluecurse60 3h ago
Bro at least Tiktok tells you why your comment was removed. On Youtube if there's a comment the algorithm won't like it's autodeleted to the shadow realm. Although oddly not the overly religious fanatical ones or the obvious bots for some reason...
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u/Own-Possibility-7994 3h ago
I reported this smug video of him masturbating.. Tiktok didn't take it down because it doesn't violates.. 🤷♂️
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u/FrustratedFowler 3h ago
I got my comment removed earlier on a post about some terrorist getting killed
My comment was litterly "good" and it got removed for hate speech. Unbelievable
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u/StevieG93 3h ago
All those other jokes are more interesting and take more effort, so I would agree with Tiktok here.
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u/35andDying 2h ago
I bet Meta have their hands in this app too. The UI, especially going through the settings, are oddly very similar. Also weird how they became the new popular source for spewing far right propaganda during the last Election as FB did during Traitor Don's first term.
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u/Fantastic_Key_8906 2h ago
I don't use Tiktok and don't know much about it but I do know this: Moderators are fucking ape-shit stupid people on ALL forums. The end
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u/Interesting_Goat_413 2h ago
All socials are ideological echo chambers for one group or another. People really shouldn't spend too much time on any platform. They should go be around actual people and literally talk to strangers a couple times a week.
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u/TAbathtime 11h ago
TikTok is shit. I reported a comment last week about how a woman deserved to be raped, nothing. If I post a comment that has a swear, even a joke, I get a warning. Its shocking.
Unfortunately studies have proven people spend more time on the Internet when they're angry. I'm convinced tiktok hide all the good comments low down and make me scroll through so much shit to find the funny and nice comments, they always have WAY more likes too