r/neuroendocrinetumors • u/radarscoot • 1d ago
How do you recognize or acknowledge your challenges with NETs?
I was diagnosed and treated for Ocular Cancer (Uveal Melanoma) almost exactly 4 years ago just months before I retired. I have given most of the sight from my left eye to UM and I live with the knowledge that if it metastasizes to my liver there will be little that can be done.
I just spent the last month going through a bunch of diagnostic tests and in late September will be undergoing surgery to remove parts of my small bowel and large intestine along with my Ileocecal valve. I am not sure what I will be giving up to NETs yet, but the surgeon is hopeful that it won't be much from this surgery.
I will never be declared "free" of either of these cancers. They are both very rare (UM is ~6 people per million diagnosed each year). I feel like I should somehow acknowledge that. What I have seen of "warrior" T-shirts and things just doesn't do it for me. I feel like I am in "negotiations" rather than a war. I'm trying for peaceful coexistence as eradicating my challenger is just not within the capability of anything but luck right now.
I've seen t-shirts, pins, ribbons - even tattoos. Have any of you found something that helps you acknowledge your reality in a way that keeps you grounded and can help find peace when you need it?