Why is it impossible to be friends with guys 😔

[u/dontmakelemonad3]

[u/slicehyperfunk]

I want to with guys are be friends the way guys with each other

[u/AvaliKisser → u/slicehyperfunk]

Same 😞

[u/AdreKiseque]

What is that sub

[u/[deleted] → u/AdreKiseque]

Yeah no idea popped in my feed !!

[u/bherH-on → u/AdreKiseque]

Sub for female incels (I know that sounds like an oxymoron)

[u/death1414 → u/bherH-on]

How is that an oxymoron. Incel means involuntary celibate, it isn't a gendered term.

[u/Aggressive_Win_9905 → u/[deleted]]

It was literally a woman who came up with the word incel for herself ya dingus. 😂🤦‍♂️

[u/Amphal → u/bherH-on]

do you know what an oxymoron is?

[u/bherH-on → u/Amphal]

Yes

[u/Aggressive_Win_9905 → u/bherH-on]

But you gave an example that wasn't an oxymoron.🤔

[u/bherH-on → u/Aggressive_Win_9905]

“Sounds like”

[u/AwwnieLovesGirlcock → u/bherH-on]

it is not at all an oxymoron🥲 im a lady myself and ive had to deal with that kind of thing so much trying to find a safe space on social media for sexual expression and things . it is brutal . they are the source of so many of my mental problems . 😭

[u/bherH-on → u/AwwnieLovesGirlcock]

I just said it sounds like an oxymoron.

[u/Komahina_Oumasai → u/bherH-on]

It's really not. Incel, or rather invcel as it was originally coined, was a term created by a woman to describe her own experiences.

[u/AdreKiseque → u/bherH-on]

This post doesn't make it look like that

[u/Razkinzmangowurzel → u/AdreKiseque]

Its no where near as toxic or sexist as male incel stuff

[u/shitlord_god → u/Razkinzmangowurzel]

it does have some really wild/fun stuff show up sometimes.

[u/bherH-on → u/AdreKiseque]

Yes but the rest of the subreddit is

[u/bherH-on → u/[deleted]]

Thanks I didn’t know that!

[u/slicehyperfunk → u/[deleted]]

That's hilarious

[u/MidnightJ1200]

The question is what group of guys do you aspire to be like? I like somewhat serious by jokey guys and that's who I tend to hang out with. Ones who aren't afraid to listen, rant with you, tell a joke to lighten the mood, and can overall just match the vibe they're given or make it better. But then there's also guys who are basically f boys, pulling pranks and pushing limits, I'm sure there's more to them if you get to know them but every time I hung out with them I've had bad experiences vs my normal friend groups.

Those are the two I know of for sure. I know there's more there as well, but overall just start chatting with the group you want to be with and work your way in. But also don't forget to be yourself. Whatever group you go with, your self will guide you and help you fit in in your own way.

[u/FrouFrouLastWords]

Goddammit you beat me posting this by an hour

[u/Deli-ops7 → u/FrouFrouLastWords]

Yeah but they used the wrong title cuz they didnt change it so yours will do wayyy better

[u/shitlord_god]

The biggest difference between my friendships with other dudes and women is the amount of grilling/smoking meat we do.

And if someone asks me to show up with a brisket, if I am financially able I am showing up with a god damn brisket - Gender, Sex, Presentation, and Religion be damned.

[u/FemboyUwU67]

As a guy, I believe that we have to be more delicate with woman I say this bc I tried treating a girl like one of the guys and they decided that I was a dick, cursed me out, and posted on social media about it all bc I roast a different friend, wasn't even about her it was a guy friend of mine that was her friend too, he even tried to say that's how we joke around but she didn't give a shit, that's why I don't treat women the same anymore

[u/DifferencePlenty772]

Don't be fuckable

[u/dinidusam]

What like grab your ass 💀

[u/throwaway3462854926]

I want guys

[u/Timely_Pattern3209]

You sure? We treat each other like shit. 

[u/sum_r4nd0m_gurl]

i wish i had that problem and was pretty enough for male friends to desire me

[u/riptydefr]

Coz guys be down bad sometimes

[u/No-Individual7582]

All my friends suck. No you don’t