Just....walk out of the room

[u/NursingManChristDude]

Here's a PSA for my fellow nurses, in case anyone hasn't realized they can do this:

If a patient is being rude to you, just walk out of the room. If necessary, don't even say anything beforehand. When you return, at the time of your choosing, simply ask them "Are you ready to be more respectful?"

I haven't had to do this often, because I am aware of he misogynistic attitude patients have in treating me, a male, with more respect than my fellow female employees.

But, it's like having a secret weapon in your back pocket at all times, and you should never feel disrespected/mistreated/abused by your patients. They need you, not the other way around. This certainly falls under the category of "nursing hack".

[u/GivesMeTrills]

I’m so shy and wish I could do this. I have gotten better, but can’t imagine being forward enough to do this when I can barely order a coffee in person at Starbucks. I admire you all! I am more extroverted with my patients and their families, but I am such a pleaser and need to do better.

[u/NursingManChristDude → u/GivesMeTrills]

Aww, well hey that's why I put the caveat in that you don't even need to say anything--anyone can just feel free to leave any situation he or she wants.

Practice makes perfect, so I know you can improve. Maybe go to Starbucks twice a day for more practice 😉🤣

[u/GivesMeTrills → u/NursingManChristDude]

I could not go back in after walking out. I have terrible anxiety. I may have to just hit up every coffee shop on the way to work to build my stamina. 😂

[u/NursingManChristDude → u/GivesMeTrills]

Lol! Well hey, whatever works for ya 🤣