Usually it’s just trauma that they cope with via fetishizing it. Like women who fantasize about getting raped or men who fantasize about getting castrated. It’s not intentional usually, but eventually it bcomes intentional to avoid therapy and continue behaviors u know are from negative experiences. I’ve yet to meet a person who “healthily” practices these fetishes, almost always they’re just justifying it bcuz dealing w trauma is harder.
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u/sefradin 17d ago
I hate kinks and fetishes, just go to therapy u fucks