r/rape • u/stitchmain_ • 2d ago
what should i do as a brother
Hi i recently got the word of my younger sister 19 being raped by a 27 years old. And aside from supporting her is there anything i can do she doesn't want to go to court for now and i can probably get his address by digging a bit i am young and my future is starting to unveil in front of me (21) my mom wants me to succeed but the idea of calling some friend to make this guy pay is slowly finding its way into my head. He is studying to be a teacher can you imagine i can try to write or call his university to warn them of his behaviour but i dont know what is right sorry if this post is not well structured im a bit confused right now.
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u/trishiemum 2d ago
I understand that you want to get him, but you don't want to get a record, as it will destroy your future, talk to your mother and sister and try and to get your sister to go to the police,
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u/stitchmain_ 2d ago
That's unfair ..... This guy marked her for ever he walks free he's gonna teach kids he's gonna maybe get a wife one day.
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u/Choice-Ad3809 1d ago
if you want to ruin his life, go to the police, call his job, call his school, post him everywhere online with all his information.
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u/Reasonable_Skirt6710 1d ago
Hey, brother. What I can to you as a Man is that I REALLY get what you're feeling.
If your sister already decided not to gomtothe police, we need to support her but, if this happened in just a couple days ago, I would ask her to do the rape kit at the hospital. Truth to be told, in cases of sexual violence, the hospital is a must. There's infections, physical trauma, many stuff she needs to be protected from.
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u/stitchmain_ 1d ago
That she did fortunately he wore protection so that lessen the risk of infections.
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u/HairyAd3892 1d ago
Go to the authorities with your family report it.. Need that fam support at this moment
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u/Pineapple-Cat69 1d ago
Hey friend… when you start to think like this remember this, how can you be more of help to your family?…
Will you being in jail for assault help your sister?… if you do need revenge, you need to compile evidence for when your sister feels ready
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u/thrfscowaway8610 10h ago
The victim in this case is an adult. She is the only one who gets a vote in how to handle what happened to her. Not OP, and certainly not you.
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