r/teenagers • u/Independent-Cry-333 • 1d ago
Serious I'm the worst person ever.
I genuinely feel like I'm the worst person ever to exist. Not in the sense that I have bad intentions, but I literally suck at everything. I'm ugly, stupid, and basically talentless. I have nothing going for me in this life and I don't know what I should do.
Life sucks.
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u/MetalheadGamer810 15 1d ago
You're not the worst person ever because I exist. I am genuinely worse than you, I guarantee it.
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
That's nice of you to say, but I doubt it.
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u/MetalheadGamer810 15 1d ago
You'd be surprised by my ability to be absolutely terrible.
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
Haha, I guess you share my only talent with me.
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u/MetalheadGamer810 15 1d ago
I guess I do.
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u/FunHat1418 1d ago
I'm sure that I'm worse than both you and OP
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u/Realistic-Carrot-852 1d ago
Hitler is worse
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u/rankoot 1d ago
I mean he conquered all of europe and beat the entire world
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
Beat is an interesting word to use
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u/rankoot 1d ago
why
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
How did he beat the entire world? He beat most of Europe but that's it.
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u/rankoot 1d ago
asian countries next to europe is negligible, and also the entire world teamed up on him to finally beat him
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u/Dry_Expression_6300 1d ago
the entire world didn’t team up to beat him. My grandparents don’t even know who he is.
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u/Walk-the-layout 16 1d ago
Don't say that, there are killers, rapists, nazis on the lose. You're an angel compared to them so you're far from being the worst or in the bad category
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
Yeah no, as I said it wasn't about being bad as in having bad intentions, but rather just failing in every aspect of life
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u/Liliththebimbodeity 17 1d ago
Let’s say all of that is true (and it isn’t), it’s not too late for you. You’re not even an adult yet, you have so much time to improve. try focusing on small tangible goals for each and make an effort to be a person you would want to be, even if it takes years, you have the rest of your life to figure it all out.
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
I already wasted all my best years (everyone tells me so). I will still try to make the most out of my shitty life though.
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u/Liliththebimbodeity 17 1d ago
Those people lied, I’m serious. the best years of your life are yet to come, I can promise you that.
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u/Nico444AndALotOf4 16 1d ago
Yeah, there's no such thing as being useless. The reason people live as long as they do is to make up for the years wasted. You can still change yourself completely.
Obviously, it's different for everyone, but I would recommend learning some form of art. Learning an instrument, painting, woodworking etc. if I hadn't started playing bass when I did, I genuinely would've killed myself by now. It gave me a reason to live until I could get myself back on my feet.
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u/Liliththebimbodeity 17 1d ago
Think of yourself as a starter character who needs to get their stats up, that’s what helps me personally.
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u/Historical_Air1688 13 1d ago edited 1d ago
Nah. Don't think that. You've got an entire life in front of you. Your own story. You can do anything you want with it. You've got many more years to live, so you better live with all your might. You think you're ugly and talentless? Fuck that. Just do what you want and chase your dreams, write your own story. If you do this, I promise you'll find happiness. I'm with ya. You got this.
Edit: I gotta mention, you're more awesome than you realize. You just gotta find more of your true self and embrace it. Don't stress yourself, you're an amazing person. Believe it. Do what you find joy in. Start by loving yourself.
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u/ionwywh 1d ago
the more you believe that these things are true, the more true you make them. find something you enjoy, put your effort in to that and take pride in your work even if you don’t think it was successful. if you know what went wrong, it was still successful since you have mastered the concept in theory and are working towards mastering application
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u/Secret_West5235 15 1d ago
Come chat self love and only that. If you keep telling yourself your a lowlife loser it sadly becomes true but if you say your a great dude then that becomes true
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
Everyone else tells me so. I really am a lowlife loser. Lying will not make me a better person.
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u/karldenson 1d ago
Life ain’t over at all, stop writing yourself off so early
You’re not talentless, you just haven’t found your lane yet
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
It seems like everyone else has around me. I'm just scared because I don't know how I will survive as an adult.
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u/InnovAnton 1d ago
Don't talk like that man we all have talents but it may take time to discover and build them. The best thing to do is to try everything and let yourself suck when you start out because you're still a beginner and most importantly just have fun while trying something like reading or art. I hope this helps!
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u/Icy_Release_5045 1d ago
okay. im a nice person...bla bla.. encourage...bla bla... words of motivation bla bla. believe in yourself
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u/Foreign_Door6118 1d ago
Rs but life doesent suck I suck imean like suck in life not in that 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂 shi.
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u/Walk-the-layout 16 1d ago
You can't be the worst person ever, there are nazis, rapists and serial killers on the run.
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u/JediBananas1 1d ago
Play a sport i used to think i was ass at everything absolutely horrible then i tried football i felt like i belonged for once like i was in a community i have 0 talent but i was willing to try, to learn so just try people will respect you for it you can feel like you belong or if sports aren't your thing Volunteer the feeling of helping others is one of the best ive ever felt you got this OP
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u/StatisticianNo61 1d ago
Talent isn't something inborn. If you wanna be talented learn new skills
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u/Independent-Cry-333 1d ago
I'm sorry if I'm wrong but isn't the definition of talent exactly an aptitude for something that is born with us?
The thing is I tried countless things. I stuck to the, but the lack of talent and skill in me means that I only get to be mediocre to bad at anything.
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u/Gl0ck_Ness_M0nster 1d ago
Nobody is born talented. Well, some people are. But most aren't. Look at the average artist's early drawings. Most of them will be shit, and it takes time before they get better. And that's ok.
Find something you love doing, and do it a lot. Get involved in the community and ask for advice. Look up Youtube tutorials. Have fun with it. If it's something you genuinely enjoy doing, you will improve.
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u/Electrical_Cycle8961 1d ago
If you’re over 40 then it’s over ngl but since you’re in teenagers Reddit then I’m guessing you’re not meaning you have so much time to just idk “be better”
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u/rankoot 1d ago
"jarwis Im low on karma go make a vent pos on /teenagers"
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u/Clear_Explanation535 15 1d ago
it’s called hormones dumbass every teenager has moments where they go wild
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