r/youseeingthisshit Jul 02 '25

Couple reacts to a painting of them on their wedding day.

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u/Craig_E_W Jul 02 '25

I've seen a few live wedding paintings, and this is the best I've seen. I'd love to have had this at my wedding

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u/bythog Jul 02 '25

Friends of mine got married a couple of years ago and had a live painting done. It was absolutely atrocious. The know it's a monstrosity but still display it over their fireplace (they appreciate that their friends paid for it).

This one actually came out really well done.

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u/MrCuckooBananas Jul 03 '25

Oh now I kinda wanna see the monstrosity šŸ˜‚

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u/Temporarily__Alone Jul 03 '25

Post it please

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u/hpfan1516 Jul 04 '25

I would also like to see this painting please (if they are ok with it hahaha)

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u/just_a_person_maybe Jul 06 '25

I went to a wedding where the artist badly drew people on purpose, and it was advertised as such. It was a lot of fun. People would go sit at the artist's table and they'd chat with them while they sketched, and everyone got bad drawings as party favors. The same artist drew the bride and groom for the wedding invites.

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u/Adorable-Bike-9689 Jul 02 '25

I'm over here spending all day to paint a simple ass smiley face or something. These people are crazy talentedĀ 

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u/IneptPine Jul 02 '25

skilled*Ā  This is the result of years of hard work and learning

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u/Adorable-Bike-9689 Jul 02 '25

Well shit yea. You can work on progressing your talent.

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u/jay8888 Jul 02 '25

For all we know they could be not talented but just worked real hard.

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u/Erikatessen87 Jul 02 '25

*skill

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u/Adorable-Bike-9689 Jul 03 '25

Talented, skilled, developed. Any word you can think to explain how well they paint. That's what they are.Ā 

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u/Erikatessen87 Jul 03 '25 edited Jul 04 '25

The problem with calling it "talent" is it ignores the years of practice someone puts into building their skill to the level it is by ascribing it to something they were born with and didn't need to work to achieve, while also discouraging novices who assume their lack of skill is simply because they weren't born "talented" and can never achieve the same level as someone who is.

You can keep prevaricating and insisting on continuing to use the word "talented," but it reads as dismissive and the very people you're trying to compliment are going to bristle at it.

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u/Mello_Hello Jul 03 '25

I’m SO SO grateful for you, I have been pushing this for years. I did not spend 20 years learning to draw to be called ā€œso talentedā€ like I woke up like this 😭

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u/DOYOURTIMESHEET Jul 04 '25

This 😭 like you think I rolled out of my mom painting the mona lisa??? 😭

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u/mediashiznaks Jul 03 '25

Yup, and this painter is a perfect example of great technical skill, but no talent.

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u/mljb81 Jul 03 '25

Look up growth vs fixed mindset (and the definition of talent vs skill). Attributing success to talent isn't the compliment you think it is.

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u/Adorable-Bike-9689 Jul 03 '25

I will look that up. It sounds like folks have different definitions of skill vs talent. I was just paying respect to their ability to accomplish something like thatĀ 

I'll look that up now thoughĀ 

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u/crazykentucky Jul 02 '25

Skill = talent + investment

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u/pentagon Jul 03 '25

Not investment. Effort. Not the same.

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u/crazykentucky Jul 03 '25

You can invest with time, effort, training, the right tools, etc

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u/Rugkrabber Jul 06 '25

This is definitely really well done, and fantastic preparation by the artist. This is hard work and they did an incredible job. (I know as I have done the same but it’s very intense!!)

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u/robgod50 Jul 06 '25

Bride lost a few pounds. Id be happy about that too

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u/Rimavelle Jul 04 '25

Wow no kidding.

Usually the live paintings I've seen are kinda dogshit. Like I get it's hard to paint live, but actually really not good.

This one is AMAZING

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u/imhighonpills Jul 05 '25

What do they mean by live painting? Like it was painted during the wedding?

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u/Rugkrabber Jul 06 '25

Yes. It’s often a prepared piece (decided beforehand what will be made), but the painting progress is done during the wedding. (There are always exceptions but generally this is what I have seen).

It’s very intense, the environment is difficult as people constantly take you out of concentration, sometimes it’s hard to see for the artist (dimmed lights), and there’s a time limit. This artist is very good at her work, well prepared and can work in this busy environment. I applaud her for that.

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u/hypothetician Jul 06 '25

ā€œWhat the fuck, who are they?ā€

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u/ShowmasterQMTHH Jul 07 '25

Its really well done, i assume they make a little bit of a start in advance though, agree on the pose and stuff ?

Its nice how she idealised them a little bit subtly, too attractive people made to look a little fitter and taller, but just enough so that if someone see the picture in the future, they remember them that way too.

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u/INFEKTEK Jul 02 '25

A camera could take a photo of the moment but it's not really the same thing mate...